I hope you don't think that I just come over for the spells and everything. I mean, I really like just talking and hanging out with you and stuff.

Willow ,'First Date'


Natter 64: Yes, we still need you  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Dec 30, 2009 6:14:07 pm PST #28250 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

t bites Cash's tongue

Wait, that's not right...


Lee - Dec 30, 2009 6:14:48 pm PST #28251 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

I cleaned! And really cleaned, without sending ita ANY links.

It's like a post Christmas miracle.


DavidS - Dec 30, 2009 6:14:58 pm PST #28252 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

We went there enough as kids that the cemetary itself is a very comforting, homey place for me.

Nice. There was a graveyard I played in when I was growing up in Oregon. There were lots of apple trees there and we'd climb up and eat apples in the branches. That's all I want. To be in somebody's apple.


Amy - Dec 30, 2009 6:16:50 pm PST #28253 of 30001
Because books.

As it happened - and I have no idea how it happened - they had one plot available. Next to her parents.

That's wonderful. I do like the idea of everyone all together.

I like cemetaries, I like reading headstones.

There was a really old one in the PA town where we used to live, and I loved walking in there -- stones dating back to the early 1800s.


Steph L. - Dec 30, 2009 6:16:58 pm PST #28254 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

HA! I don't think anyone wants my organs.

Between diabetes and smoking, I bet my organs aren't real attractive either, sadly.

You can donate all kinds of shit -- even tendons. There's usually something donate-able on most people. (My best friend has worked for organ donation centers for about 10 years, so I learned all kinds of nifty stuff about organ donation.)

I just want to donate whatever is useable/needed, and then cremate me and be done with it. I also don't want family members to feel obligated to keep my ashes in an urn/coffee can on the mantel/toilet tank. If they want to mix my ashes in with the rosebed mulch, then right on.

Although part of me wants to stipulate in my will that my remains be made into a LifeGem, and my heirs cannot claim the estate unless they wear me as some sort of big blingy jewel.

That all hinges on me actually having anything that could be called an "estate" in a non-satirical way, though.


sarameg - Dec 30, 2009 6:17:19 pm PST #28255 of 30001

It tickles me that I can go out to Pipestone, MN and find my maternal grandparents' graves. And that someone will walk past them and wonder who they were. If only I could tell them that whenever I do something curiously adventurous, my mother tells me it reminds her of her mother. My love of swimming, water and sailing? My grandmother swam several days a week, despite being a farmwife and teacher in the back beyond. She sailed at Grinnell. I didn't know her long, but according to my aunts and uncle, I remind them a lot of her and that blows my mind. And that's a gift no headstone could pass, but I wish I could. And yet, I see me most in my paternal grandmother, who I did not get along with. It's funny, legacy.


brenda m - Dec 30, 2009 6:17:24 pm PST #28256 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Karl Rove's father: [link]

(It's a nice story actually. There are pics, but you have to click through to them.)


Steph L. - Dec 30, 2009 6:17:39 pm PST #28257 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Cash, did you know that Karl Rove's father was very into interesting, um, piercings and did some modeling to that effect?

He was also gay, wasn't he?


Amy - Dec 30, 2009 6:18:01 pm PST #28258 of 30001
Because books.

Although part of me wants to stipulate in my will that my remains be made into a LifeGem, and my heirs cannot claim the estate unless they wear me as some sort of big blingy jewel.

They could create a giant blingy semi-colon!


Steph L. - Dec 30, 2009 6:19:15 pm PST #28259 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Although part of me wants to stipulate in my will that my remains be made into a LifeGem, and my heirs cannot claim the estate unless they wear me as some sort of big blingy jewel.

They could create a giant blingy semi-colon!

Aw, fuck yeah! But I need to amass that "estate" now....