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Natter 64: Yes, we still need you  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


SuziQ - Dec 16, 2009 5:45:15 am PST #25506 of 30001
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Went to the doc and I do have a sinus infection. Antiboitics will be had this evening. Joy?

While there, I asked her advice regarding drinking and the meds I'm taking - asking specifically about hypothetical partying on NYE. Her basic response - if you wanna go out and party a night, you should be fine. Just realize the alcohol will hit you faster and you shouldn't make it a habit.

Crossing fingers for Tom W.

Sending virtual hugs (VIRTUAL) to those boundry issue people (I understand and TRY to respect those wishes). Offering hugs and snuggles to those who are more into that. Or at least the offer stands once this stooopid sinus infection is gone.


Jessica - Dec 16, 2009 5:45:20 am PST #25507 of 30001
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I feel like I should print cards and hand them out explaining that my boundaries are just that -- MINE -- and while I'm happy to see them, part of my boundaries is choosing who I hug, damn it.

"If you can read this, you are inside my personal bubble without an invitation."


smonster - Dec 16, 2009 5:49:30 am PST #25508 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Continued good luck, Theo!

I only hug a few people at work, mostly people who have initiated hugs with me before. My supervisor has been going through a rough time but I know she has boundaries, so I always ask if she wants a hug before going in. Asking people seems much more natural with practice. And if they say no, no harm no foul.

Steph, good luck tonight maintaining your boundaries. Maybe you need a set of fetish clothes that say "No [Boy's Name]? No touchy." I mean, you shouldn't, but there will always be clueless boundary invaders.

Where does everyone get all this damned vacation time from? Are they cheating and nobody calls them on it? Argh!

I have coworkers who have HUNDREDS of hours of vacation accrued. I will never get there. In fact, I'm working all the days we're open to have enough to go down to NOLA for a week, assuming I can put together the $$.


Steph L. - Dec 16, 2009 5:50:10 am PST #25509 of 30001
I look more rad than Lutheranism

"If you can read this, you are inside my personal bubble without an invitation."

Oh, this would be PERFECT.


Jesse - Dec 16, 2009 5:51:51 am PST #25510 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I got paid out for six weeks of vacation time when I left my job, thanks to the fact that we get a lot of leave, and I never take vacations.... Last year I had almost two weeks off over Christmas, between days we were closed and taking a few vacation days.

Went to the doc and I do have a sinus infection. Antiboitics will be had this evening. Joy?

Yeah, theoretically joy, because the meds should help! As opposed to other things where the only answer is to wait it out...?


tommyrot - Dec 16, 2009 5:55:56 am PST #25511 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

So if I'm having trouble sleeping at night due to free-floating anxiety issues, should I drink less coffee, even if I only drink coffee in the morning?


flea - Dec 16, 2009 5:58:34 am PST #25512 of 30001
information libertarian

I get 12 or 13 days (it accrues in hours, I can't remember how it adds up), but I'm always having to take time for someone being sick, or random school holidays, or 3 day weekends. We generally only take one actual vacation week a year, and I would love to have two.

We do get the entire period of Xmas-New Year's off. Usually the 24th is a work day, but we're furloughed the 24th and Jan. 4th this year, so that whole stretch everything is closed (and they turn off the power and lower the heat and basically shut all the way down, the whole campus.)


Glamcookie - Dec 16, 2009 5:59:02 am PST #25513 of 30001
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Glamcookie, when you are ready for a sitter, I have one for you.

Aw yeah!

In the Shit Just Got Real department, a blogging friend who is due a week after me had her baby last night. Just a little reminder that it can happen any time, even though he is scheduled for noon on Monday. Cue the freaking out!


Stephanie - Dec 16, 2009 6:00:22 am PST #25514 of 30001
Trust my rage

Went to the doc and I do have a sinus infection. Antiboitics will be had this evening.

I'm sorry you need the antibiotics, but glad you got them. I wish my sore throat was amenable to antibiotics. I'm taking Frisco in today for his cough - found out one of his caregivers has/had pneumonia. Not that she gave it to him and I had already made the appointment before I learned this, but it just convinced me that there are some powerful germs going around.


brenda m - Dec 16, 2009 6:01:14 am PST #25515 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

So if I'm having trouble sleeping at night due to free-floating anxiety issues, should I drink less coffee, even if I only drink coffee in the morning?

Caffiene can linger in the body for something like 17 or 18 hours, so it could help.