And don't you ever stand for that sort of thing. Someone ever tries to kill you, you try to kill 'em right back! ... You got the right same as anyone to live and try to kill people.

Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


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Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Dec 14, 2009 1:06:01 pm PST #25005 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Getting hammered once every three months (still not me) is casual?

That might be getting into the realm of binge drinking, depending on how hammered. Might be medically relevant, I'd guess.


brenda m - Dec 14, 2009 1:07:29 pm PST #25006 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

What is casual drinking? I only know not drinking and can imagine heavy drinking. A glass or two of wine with dinner three times a week--that's still casual, right?

I would call that regular drinking, but I'm not sure whether that takes it out of the realm of casual or not. It's certainly not heavy drinking.


Atropa - Dec 14, 2009 1:10:03 pm PST #25007 of 30001
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

What is casual drinking? I only know not drinking and can imagine heavy drinking. A glass or two of wine with dinner three times a week--that's still casual, right?

I wonder the same thing. In my world, a small glass of absinthe three nights a week is casual drinking, but I don't know if the rest of the world would feel the same way.


Jesse - Dec 14, 2009 1:16:30 pm PST #25008 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I would call that regular drinking, but I'm not sure whether that takes it out of the realm of casual or not. It's certainly not heavy drinking.

That sounds right to me.


tommyrot - Dec 14, 2009 1:18:06 pm PST #25009 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Diagram of Geek Culture

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Rather than a formal taxonomy, this diagram by Ibrahim Evsan divides geek culture into activities, obsessions, social communities, terms, idols, and types. Its primary flaw is that it does not take cross-breeding into account.


-t - Dec 14, 2009 1:19:04 pm PST #25010 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

According to the USDA,

Moderation is defined as the consumption of up to one drink per day for women and up to two drinks per day for men. Twelve fluid ounces of regular beer, 5 fluid ounces of wine, or 1.5 fluid ounces of 80-proof distilled spirits count as one drink for purposes of explaining moderation. This definition of moderation is not intended as an average over several days but rather as the amount consumed on any single day.

Which is what I've more or less internalized, I think, though I wouldn't think any woman having a couple/few drinks of an evening was necessarily overdoing it. Seems like one of those things that depends on the individual to large degree.

That Marvel/Disney poster is great.


§ ita § - Dec 14, 2009 1:22:20 pm PST #25011 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Men get double the alcohol of women? Seriously? I could see 50% more, but 100%? Thassa lot.


-t - Dec 14, 2009 1:25:10 pm PST #25012 of 30001
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Yeah, I don't know how they figure that, it does seem like a large difference.


Kat - Dec 14, 2009 1:28:08 pm PST #25013 of 30001
"I keep to a strict diet of ill-advised enthusiasm and heartfelt regret." Leigh Bardugo

I'm with ita, that's fucking weird.

I go through periods where I drink pretty regularly, but then I'll go dozens of months without drinking anything alcoholic. If I open a bottle of wine to cook and there is some left, I'll have a glass. But honestly, I almost never drink anymore. Even when I do get a beer, I rarely want the whole thing, just the neck, which seems sort of silly.

Hmmm... i'm wondering now if I open wine to cook if I could premeasure and freeze what I'll need for next time?


megan walker - Dec 14, 2009 1:29:41 pm PST #25014 of 30001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Yeah, if I open a bottle of wine, then it's a safe bet that the next few days I'll have wine with dinner, but there are also weeks where I don't drink anything.