To some drinkers it is though. I have (ex)friends who only socialize over drinks. It is their main activity outside of work and home and they always make a weird deal out of people 1) not drinking 2) having only one or two drinks.
We gotta go to the crappy town where I'm the hero!
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msbelle - Dec 14, 2009 11:53:39 am PST #24951 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
Daisy Jane - Dec 14, 2009 11:54:45 am PST #24952 of 30001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
My husband is a bar manager, just about everyone I know drinks, and I still don't think it's weird not to.
Polter-Cow - Dec 14, 2009 11:55:21 am PST #24953 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!
"Drinking alcohol" should not be considered the default condition of a human.
That's my thinking too, even though I pretty much assume it is anyway. But usually when I tell people I don't drink, they just accept it.
my love of the plain daquiri.
Heh. I was in CVS yesterday, and I passed this teenage girl reading a shopping list or something with her mother. "'Dye-keery,'" she read. "What's that?"
Amy - Dec 14, 2009 11:56:07 am PST #24954 of 30001
Because books.
People might not drink for so many reasons, though. Health, and/or medication, just to name a few.
It strikes me as unbelievably rude that someone you don't even know would *demand* an explanation, too.
Jesse - Dec 14, 2009 11:56:50 am PST #24955 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
To some drinkers it is though. I have (ex)friends who only socialize over drinks. It is their main activity outside of work and home and they always make a weird deal out of people 1) not drinking 2) having only one or two drinks.
That's just weird. I would have to figure out what else to do with someone if they didn't want to go to a bar, but I don't care what they do while we're there!
P.M. Marc - Dec 14, 2009 11:56:51 am PST #24956 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
I am baffled by non-drinkers who have never been drinkers, I will admit. I have a hard time computing.
megan walker - Dec 14, 2009 11:57:34 am PST #24957 of 30001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
Yeah, I once started talking with a guy after a movie, and, when I suggested we stop for a drink, his first response was "I don't drink." Thanks to my crazy aunt, I immediately responded "Anything?" But the assumption was that I meant alcohol (when I didn't).
When I gave up drinking for Lent a number of people felt the need to comment. The rest just assumed I was pregnant.
Lee - Dec 14, 2009 11:57:44 am PST #24958 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.
A question for people who drink: how unusual do you think it is for someone not to drink? I met a guy at a meetup a week ago, and when I told him I didn't drink, I got this response:
I think the better question might be--was this guy raised by wolves? There are dozens of reasons people might not drink, starting with "I just don't want to" and going from there, and not one of them is any business of someone you just met.
Amy - Dec 14, 2009 11:59:24 am PST #24959 of 30001
Because books.
I think the better question might be--was this guy raised by wolves? There are dozens of reasons people might not drink, starting with "I just don't want to" and going from there, and not one of them is any business of someone you just met.
Exactly!
Scrappy - Dec 14, 2009 11:59:33 am PST #24960 of 30001
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.
For people with an alcohol problem of some sort, people who don't drink are threatening. They tell themselves that everyone cares about drinking as much as they do, so someone who doesn't can really freak them out.
I have been literally yelled at for not drinking. Not for talking about drinking or anything annoying, but for refusing a drink at a party and when the person urged me to take it, saying "I don't drink but it looks delicious." They then told me I was a freak who didn't know how to have fun.