I see a lot of requests from men that state that they "don't want any drama" and "no games."
Well, "no drama" sometimes means "no strings" aka "fuck buddy."
Kaylee: H-how did you... g-get on...? Early: Strains the mind a bit, don't it? You think you're all alone. Maybe I come down the chimney, Kaylee. Bring presents to the good girls and boys.
'Objects In Space'
Natter 64: Yes, we still need you
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
tommyrot - Aug 05, 2009 11:10:21 am PDT #2203 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
Kathy A - Aug 05, 2009 11:10:27 am PDT #2204 of 30001
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil
What does "cis" mean? I've seen it elsewhere, and I can't figure it out.
Dana - Aug 05, 2009 11:10:57 am PDT #2205 of 30001
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
Burrell - Aug 05, 2009 11:11:03 am PDT #2206 of 30001
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
You are so right msbelle. That's exactly what it means.
tommyrot - Aug 05, 2009 11:11:04 am PDT #2207 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
What does "cis" mean?
Computer Information Services.
Jesse - Aug 05, 2009 11:11:26 am PDT #2208 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
It's when your body and your gender match, I believe -- assuming that isn't an offensive way of putting it.
lisah - Aug 05, 2009 11:11:29 am PDT #2209 of 30001
Punishingly Intricate
any statement like that "real man", "not a jerk", "no games", "no drama" - it means this: There are these other people I dated that I didn't end up liking, or they broke my heart - don't be like them.
Exactly!! It also means the person is maybe not a terribly original thinker or a particularly good writer and that may be a reason to not respond to them. I know I wouldn't have.
Gudanov - Aug 05, 2009 11:12:26 am PDT #2210 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping
I see a lot of requests from men that state that they "don't want any drama" and "no games."
I think that may mean straightforward and not doing things like: I want you to do X but I tell you not to do X because if you really care about me you'll do X anyhow. If you don't do X I'm going to be really pissed at you, but not tell you why.
erikaj - Aug 05, 2009 11:13:02 am PDT #2211 of 30001
Always Anti-fascist!
I think they(we) are happy with the gender we were born into, so I am a ciswoman.(Smile when you say that, stranger.) I think.
msbelle - Aug 05, 2009 11:13:07 am PDT #2212 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
I am sure it is not what they mean, but like my life would be WAY too much drama for a lot of people who would say something like that. It's real life and it's messy.
Lots of people wouldn't consider starting to date someone who:
has a child
is going through a divorce
has an ill parent
has a needy sibling/cousin/friend
is in recovery
it's like Robin said about looking at the list before the person.