Xander: How? What? How? Giles: Three excellent questions.

Xander/Giles ,'Never Leave Me'


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Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Amy - Sep 29, 2009 1:57:27 pm PDT #11386 of 30001
Because books.

But by placing himself above the justice system - by fleeing - Polanski has made it impossible for me to forgive him. Yeah, it's sad he's had such a hard life, not being able to visit London or New York in 30 years. Of course, he could have avoided the whole trouble by not drugging and raping a 13 year old in the first place, and (presumably) assuming he could get away with it because he was famous.

This. Exactly this.


Jesse - Sep 29, 2009 2:01:34 pm PDT #11387 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I consider precedent irrelevant unless another very similar case would arise.

There are plenty of people who commit crimes who have the money and connections to free the country and stay gone. That's the only "very similar case" that is relevant.

Also, what flea said.


Barb - Sep 29, 2009 2:02:31 pm PDT #11388 of 30001
“Not dead yet!”

Should he get away with drugging and raping a 13-year-old girl?

Nope. He shouldn't have in the first place.

I don't know... there are just so many variables in this case. He was stupid to run, but again, I don't know what demons drive the man or if it was a case of thinking himself above the law because of who he was. It could be equal parts of both. It was also a different time and place and lifestyle the likes of which very few of us can begin to imagine.

I honestly don't know.

And for the record, not a fan. Just trying to sort it all out in my head.


bon bon - Sep 29, 2009 2:03:15 pm PDT #11389 of 30001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

If you can read this: [link] and think he should never be punished for that, I don't know what to say.


Hil R. - Sep 29, 2009 2:08:39 pm PDT #11390 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

It was also a different time and place and lifestyle the likes of which very few of us can begin to imagine.

Is this in reference to the rape or running?


msbelle - Sep 29, 2009 2:08:44 pm PDT #11391 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

so many things are totally fucked up about that letter asking for his release I just cannot even begin. shame on them all.

and that poor girl. seriously, her life was fucked up before this, I cannot imagine, getting through that life, then his rape, THEN the publicity at the time, THEN the publicity like over and over and over.


Kristen - Sep 29, 2009 2:10:13 pm PDT #11392 of 30001

bon bon - Sep 29, 2009 2:11:17 pm PDT #11393 of 30001
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

Hil R. - Sep 29, 2009 2:13:12 pm PDT #11394 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Maybe if the judge assigned to the case hadn't been a total asshat this might have been resolved in the 70s.

Or if Polanski had worked within the system and appealed the case if he thought the judge was biased. Or voluntarily come back at any time in the past 30 years if a new judge could be assigned.


flea - Sep 29, 2009 2:14:20 pm PDT #11395 of 30001
information libertarian

It was also a different time and place and lifestyle the likes of which very few of us can begin to imagine.

I can't imagine that even in the sexy Hollywood 70s it was okay to drug and rape a girl who was crying and saying "no." (I am sure it happened a lot in the 70s and is still happening, but I don't have a problem with saying it's not okay. If the sex had been consensual, you can argue different times, but rape is rape, yo.)