Yeah, I was having that problem, too. I mean, in 1985, you did NOT move to Dorchester. Now parts of it - and Roxbury even - are quite nice, or getting nice. She says, anyway, and she's been there.
All right, no one's killing folk today, on account of our very tight schedule.
Mal ,'Trash'
Natter 64: Yes, we still need you
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
flea - Sep 23, 2009 4:50:56 pm PDT #10473 of 30001
information libertarian
Jesse - Sep 23, 2009 4:53:25 pm PDT #10474 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
That's what I hear. I think I can still say "Dot" with the right tone...
sarameg - Sep 23, 2009 4:59:27 pm PDT #10475 of 30001
Back in the late 90s, I spent fall break in Boston. My parents were all OMG, stay OUT OF ROXBURY! (dad worked for Harvard later 60s/early 70s.) Of course, I ended up in Roxbury and didn't see the fuss.
You guys. I just realized. I need to buy Halloween candy! I live in a neighborhood with kids! I'm gonna have door knockers! Eeeeee!
Vortex - Sep 23, 2009 5:04:45 pm PDT #10476 of 30001
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
My friend R. lives in Dorchestah, and it's a nice neighborhood. It apparently gets a little sketchy if you go more than a few blocks in some directions.
megan walker - Sep 23, 2009 5:06:24 pm PDT #10477 of 30001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
Thanks for the salary perspectives. I'm collecting all sorts of information because 5 of us are collectively going to the Big Boss to talk about our deteriorating work situation and I want to be as prepared as possible on all fronts.
Needless to say, the next couple of days should be very interesting.
ETA: Of course, it goes without saying that Jesse should move to San Francisco (but not work in publishing).
§ ita § - Sep 23, 2009 5:14:16 pm PDT #10478 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
I think the "always lived at home" thing would be a bit of a red flag for me. Where does he have sex?
I really liked McAdams in Wedding Crashers and that's exactly the sort of movie that encourages disposable women, and she wasn't. And her pictures (when she's brunette) always seem warm and charming. I will probably next see her in Sherlock Holmes.
I'm an incredibly huge Bana fan. He gives me the shivers, that man. Chopper, Troy, him in The Hulk...
megan walker - Sep 23, 2009 5:17:22 pm PDT #10479 of 30001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
I think the "always lived at home" thing would be a bit of a red flag for me. Where does he have sex?
The same place his parents do?
Having dated someone living at home (and it was an issue but not for the reasons one might think), it doesn't have to be a negative, but it should be a red flag that is considered and discussed.
§ ita § - Sep 23, 2009 5:22:23 pm PDT #10480 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
The same place his parents do?
In their bed? That ain't right.
megan walker - Sep 23, 2009 5:23:31 pm PDT #10481 of 30001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist
Place meaning house, not spot.
ChiKat - Sep 23, 2009 5:26:22 pm PDT #10482 of 30001
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?
Place meaning house, not spot.
Ewwww....now I have an icky mental picture.
megan walker, check out this website. You can enter in info about your job and get a salary range. And it's free!! [link]
I did it for my previous job and I think they're pretty accurate for my situation.