I think where you might find something comparable from the same period is in temperance literature. (There was a lot of children's stuff being published at that time against the evils of drink,)

The Vision Forum sells these books in their Beautiful Girlhood collection. [link]

Over the last several years, I have heard hundreds of reports from homeschoolers and Christian families about the blessings these books have been in their lives. Elsie raises the standard of godly womanhood to new heights. Feminists will not be happy with Elsie. She is a God-honoring young woman who strives to solve problems while working through biblical authority structures.

Hil, is there a reason you're putting yourself through this?

Oh, dear. Elsie's father's sister Adelaide just told him that he's being way too strict, and that Elsie will respond just as well to a soft word of rebuke as to a stern one. He tells her to mind her own business. And then,

All that Adelaide had said was true; yet Elsie never complained, never blamed her father, even in her heart; but, in her deep humility, thought it was all because she was "so very naughty or careless;" and she was continually making resolutions to be "oh! _so_ careful always to do just right, and please dear papa, so that some day he might learn to love her."

But, alas! that hope was daily growing fainter and fainter; his cold and distant manner to her and his often repeated reproofs had so increased her natural timidity and sensitiveness that she was now very constrained in her approaches to him, and seldom ventured to move or speak in his presence; and he would not see that this timidity and embarrassment were the natural results of his treatment, but attributed it all to want of affection. He saw that she feared him, and to that feeling alone he gave credit for her uniform obedience to his commands, while he had no conception of the intense, but now almost despairing love for him that burned in that little heart, and made the young life one longing, earnest desire and effort to gain his affection.

This is so disturbing.

Hil, is there a reason you're putting yourself through this?

Well, I started it out of a sort of morbid curiosity. And now I kind of want to finish it, because it just keeps getting worse, and I just keep wondering what on earth this author will do next.

Last night I was fumbling with some fast food and the following exchange occurred.

Me: Hey there's a taco in here!

D: what?

Me: I just put my taco on top of your taco.

D: That's what she said... to her!

There is a magic spell for kitchen cleaning , right?

People don't really do it , do they?

sigh

Scourgify

Can you come do that to my whole house, Laga? I think I've procrastinated as long as I am able.

Alas, I do not have a wand.

Hil, according to wikipedia, the author of the Elsie books, Martha Finley, was the daughter of a Presbyterian minister. I don't know what Presbyterianism was like in the 1800s (or, really, what it's like now). But maybe that had an affect on her perspective and writing.