I've been doing laundry and icing my shoulder. Not terribly interesting.
Prepare to uncouple -- uncouple.
Oz ,'Same Time, Same Place'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Hil R. - Mar 07, 2009 1:55:15 pm PST #2913 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
Burrell - Mar 07, 2009 2:13:18 pm PST #2914 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
meara, I am sorry to hear that the relationship is in a death spiral, but honestly? You NEED a relationship where the other person recognizes your utter fabulousness and feels lucky to find herself in a relationship with you. Accept nothing less.
You remind me of myself sometimes in the trying so hard to make the relationship work. And I'll admit a long term relationship is hard, but the hard part isn't keeping it going. The keeping it going is a given. The hard part is not driving each other crazy.
meara - Mar 07, 2009 2:46:35 pm PST #2915 of 30000
Ay. Just talked to her on the phone, and...death spiral is dead.
Burrell - Mar 07, 2009 2:50:31 pm PST #2916 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!
I'm so sorry meara. I wish I were there to offer you hugs in person. But I know you have great friends up there.
Liese S. - Mar 07, 2009 2:56:42 pm PST #2917 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
Aww, sweetie. I'm so sorry.
But you're doing the right thing and your life is going to be better without this. It's okay for it to hurt, but you're marvelous and you're going to have an awesome future regardless.
SuziQ - Mar 07, 2009 3:37:05 pm PST #2918 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
So many lovely people on the lurk and nod bench. Wheeeee.
I did something to my shoulder and it hurts like heck. I have the heating pad on it and I'm hoping tomorrow it will feel better.
Today was beauty day for me. Got a mani/pedi (green french on the fingers and green on the toes). I also got my hair cut and colored. I have had a salon color job in yonks. Moving away from the red and went for a rich dark brown.
SailAweigh - Mar 07, 2009 3:40:25 pm PST #2919 of 30000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb
I like you with browner hair, Suzi. It makes your eyes look very dark and smoky. Ha-cha-cha.
Laga - Mar 07, 2009 3:50:53 pm PST #2920 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
Does a green french manicure mean you have green tips? Or green nails with white tips?
SuziQ - Mar 07, 2009 3:52:39 pm PST #2921 of 30000
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame
Just green tips. Before today's mani, I had gold tips.
Laga - Mar 07, 2009 3:54:27 pm PST #2922 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
I don't think I've ever seen french in color before. It sounds cute. I'll be paying more attention to people's nails for the next few weeks.