I'm feeling sorta like Suzi, though without the pretty daughter, lurking and nodding, and not saying a lot. Y'all see me nodding along, right?
'Never Leave Me'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
::nods::
This is also me. I just feel up for the occasional snark and run.
Suzi, Bev, Sail, and Ginger are me. (Lucky me!) I've been immersed in grading and comment-writing and general end-of-the-quarter insanity, so I barely have time to pop in and rarely offer comments of much substance. Sorry about that. Miss you all.
I surmise y'all are out enjoying the real world, for which I am jealous!
hah! I'm busy trying to keep myself from telling the paying customers that there's no "the" in Watchmen.
I've been doing laundry and icing my shoulder. Not terribly interesting.
meara, I am sorry to hear that the relationship is in a death spiral, but honestly? You NEED a relationship where the other person recognizes your utter fabulousness and feels lucky to find herself in a relationship with you. Accept nothing less.
You remind me of myself sometimes in the trying so hard to make the relationship work. And I'll admit a long term relationship is hard, but the hard part isn't keeping it going. The keeping it going is a given. The hard part is not driving each other crazy.
Ay. Just talked to her on the phone, and...death spiral is dead.
I'm so sorry meara. I wish I were there to offer you hugs in person. But I know you have great friends up there.
Aww, sweetie. I'm so sorry.
But you're doing the right thing and your life is going to be better without this. It's okay for it to hurt, but you're marvelous and you're going to have an awesome future regardless.