Funny thing about black and white. You mix it together and you get gray. And it doesn't matter how much white you try and put back in, you're never gonna get anything but gray.

Lilah ,'Destiny'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Oct 25, 2009 1:54:25 pm PDT #27909 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Good for you, P-C!

Hearts Matilda! She's so adorable.


omnis_audis - Oct 25, 2009 2:02:02 pm PDT #27910 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

PC good for you. Very difficult, but had to be done. I wish I could distract you while you are in town. Alas, working 9a-1a everyday doesn't allow for playing with out-o-town friends. When do you leave? I should have (most) of tomorrow (monday) off.


Laura - Oct 25, 2009 2:49:57 pm PDT #27911 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

It sounds like forward progress was made today, P-C. Repeating what others have said above about only having control over your actions and reactions.


Nora Deirdre - Oct 25, 2009 3:45:43 pm PDT #27912 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

If only in the sense that I knew I had to actually try saying something so I wouldn't be repeating the same story in here over and over.

Heh. This concept in a very real way is what got my head straight about my ex-BF. (as in, needing to break up with him)

My friends weren't as nice as all of y'all are though.


Stephanie - Oct 25, 2009 3:46:23 pm PDT #27913 of 30000
Trust my rage

People coming over in 15 minutes to discuss offer we made on the house. Eek!


Laura - Oct 25, 2009 3:54:16 pm PDT #27914 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Easy negotiation ~ma, Stephanie.


askye - Oct 25, 2009 4:23:57 pm PDT #27915 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

I need some major health~ma for my cousin. She's really my second cousin and she's well a young woman, she's 21 and married. She's 23 1/2 weeks pregnant and she's being admitted to the hospital because she's having contractions. And to make things more complicated she has a health issue that effects her heart and the pregnancy is putting a strain on her heart.

A year ago next month their son was born three months premature and they lost him the same day.

I'm so worried for her if you could send some ~ma out to her way in Texas.


Calli - Oct 25, 2009 4:53:53 pm PDT #27916 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

How scary for her, and for you, askye. Much health~ma for your cousin.


Stephanie - Oct 25, 2009 5:00:07 pm PDT #27917 of 30000
Trust my rage

Oh, askye, I'll be thinking about her and sending her good wishes.

The negotiation was...interesting. I thought in this market they would jump at our offer but no. I'll have to make a counter-counter-offer in the morning, I guess.


sj - Oct 25, 2009 5:28:54 pm PDT #27918 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Askye, tons of ~ma to your cousin. I can't even imagine what she must be going through.