It sounds like forward progress was made today, P-C. Repeating what others have said above about only having control over your actions and reactions.
If you want me to leave, you can put your hands on my hot, tight little body and make me.
Spike ,'Get It Done'
Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.
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Laura - Oct 25, 2009 2:49:57 pm PDT #27911 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
Nora Deirdre - Oct 25, 2009 3:45:43 pm PDT #27912 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
If only in the sense that I knew I had to actually try saying something so I wouldn't be repeating the same story in here over and over.
Heh. This concept in a very real way is what got my head straight about my ex-BF. (as in, needing to break up with him)
My friends weren't as nice as all of y'all are though.
Stephanie - Oct 25, 2009 3:46:23 pm PDT #27913 of 30000
Trust my rage
People coming over in 15 minutes to discuss offer we made on the house. Eek!
Laura - Oct 25, 2009 3:54:16 pm PDT #27914 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
Easy negotiation ~ma, Stephanie.
askye - Oct 25, 2009 4:23:57 pm PDT #27915 of 30000
Thrive to spite them
I need some major health~ma for my cousin. She's really my second cousin and she's well a young woman, she's 21 and married. She's 23 1/2 weeks pregnant and she's being admitted to the hospital because she's having contractions. And to make things more complicated she has a health issue that effects her heart and the pregnancy is putting a strain on her heart.
A year ago next month their son was born three months premature and they lost him the same day.
I'm so worried for her if you could send some ~ma out to her way in Texas.
Calli - Oct 25, 2009 4:53:53 pm PDT #27916 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
How scary for her, and for you, askye. Much health~ma for your cousin.
Stephanie - Oct 25, 2009 5:00:07 pm PDT #27917 of 30000
Trust my rage
Oh, askye, I'll be thinking about her and sending her good wishes.
The negotiation was...interesting. I thought in this market they would jump at our offer but no. I'll have to make a counter-counter-offer in the morning, I guess.
sj - Oct 25, 2009 5:28:54 pm PDT #27918 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Askye, tons of ~ma to your cousin. I can't even imagine what she must be going through.
askye - Oct 25, 2009 5:38:07 pm PDT #27919 of 30000
Thrive to spite them
I keep thinking about her. One thing though, my aunt and grandma have been traveling this week visiting family and they had already planned to go visit my 2nd cousin's parents and her grandmother (my gradma's sister so my great aunt). My great aunt is homebound and lives with her son and daughter in law.
So now my 2nd cousin's parents can fly out to be with her and there's someone to be there for my great aunt. Although that will be stressful for my grandma and aunt my great aunt tends to be ... she's a major worrier and talks all the time because she's uncomfortable with silences. But she'll have family there.
Laura - Oct 25, 2009 5:39:04 pm PDT #27920 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
Scary stuff, askye. Good thoughts headed her way.
Huh, I would think the same Stephanie. It is likely that offers are few and far between.