Sooner or later, you're gonna want it. And the second — the second — that happens, you know I'll be there. I'll slip in, have myself a real good day.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


WindSparrow - Oct 14, 2009 7:37:57 am PDT #26353 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Just in case anyone is experiencing a kitten deficiency, here is a CuteOverload pic for you: [link]


juliana - Oct 14, 2009 7:46:06 am PDT #26354 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

And wow, I envy ones who can wear pencil skirt.

Yeah, I was surprised to discover that they look good on me, given that my waist is large relative to my hips, but I guess they emphasize the curves I do have. A-line skirts OTOH? Make me look like the symbol on a women's bathroom door; a rectangle plus a triangle, with a circle head atop.

Word. And I love that tattoo print skirt, but I'd have to rip off that bottom ruffle.

I got a "B" in my last graphic design course (not this current one, which is the Last-last one, but hte one before), and it bothered me. Not because I thought I deserved an "A", but because I wasn't really getting feedback, and when I did get feedback and followed it, it didn't shift my grade that much. It just felt kind of... arbitrary. If I had been told why, maybe had the flaws pointed out, I would have been happier.


javachik - Oct 14, 2009 8:06:50 am PDT #26355 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I had quite the wake-up call going to an English university after getting used to American letter system. Oh, yes, I did. And I thought about not going to my graduation ceremony next March because I'm not graduating with the absolute top of the class. And then I thought: fuck it, I'm going!


Stephanie - Oct 14, 2009 8:13:01 am PDT #26356 of 30000
Trust my rage

I don't know much about birth, but deciding on a home birth on that day seems like a bad idea, yes?

So, I kind of hate to put myself in the same category as any Duggars (Duggers?), but I made the decision to have a homebirth once I was in labor. I just couldn't bear the idea of going to a hospital. Having said that, though, I had a trained and certified midwife attend my homebirth, it was my second birth, and I was fairly well-read on the topic, so it's not like I just decided out of the blue to stay home.

I haven't watched the show, but it's not uncommon for women to plan homebirths but just not make that information common knowledge before the birth.


Miracleman - Oct 14, 2009 8:19:08 am PDT #26357 of 30000
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020

I think I would have freaked the fuck out if Aims had revealed she'd been planning on having a homebirth on the day she was in labor.

"Oh, no...we're staying home."

"WE CAN'T STAY HOME! I PACKED ALL THIS SHIT! I HAVE LISTS! AND WE DON'T OWN A MACHINE THAT GOES 'PING'! GET IN THE FUCKING CAR!"


smonster - Oct 14, 2009 8:23:49 am PDT #26358 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hey, juliana... [link] or [link]

I like this one, too. [link]

t enabler (nope, never closes)


Stephanie - Oct 14, 2009 8:26:23 am PDT #26359 of 30000
Trust my rage

Well, it was something I had thought about a lot but hadn't been sure. Although I had talked to Joe at 5, told him I was wanting a homebirth but knew he was hesitant. He said I should do whatever I thought was best and we'd talk about it later. Then, an hour later, I was in labor.


Miracleman - Oct 14, 2009 8:29:01 am PDT #26360 of 30000
No, I don't think I will - me, quoting Captain Steve Rogers, to all of 2020

Oh, I'm not judging. I'm just saying me? Would have shit a brick.


Shir - Oct 14, 2009 8:47:22 am PDT #26361 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Job~ma to DebetEsse.

I packed about 80% of what I'll need the next week. My next task to to clear the bed from all of the stuff on it and change the sheets. Since my recent meltdown I didn't pack anything to the move, so I'll have A LOT to pack tomorrow. That Guy runs every now and then (when I'm not facing another Rain of Shit, that is) on my mind. I just Wanna Fucking Know, y'know?

But now, since you've mentioned Mulan, you made me want to see it. So now, I have a hot cup of cocoa and YouTube. Let's experiment, Internet!


Stephanie - Oct 14, 2009 8:51:34 am PDT #26362 of 30000
Trust my rage

So, Ellie is home sick today. She puked at school this morning and they said she wasn't herself so I went and got her. I just now offered her macaroni and cheese for lunch and made the mistake of offering before verifying that we have it. Now, she's dead set on macaroni and I can't find it anywhere.