Tara: What's so bad about them coming here? Aren't they good guys? I mean, Watchers, that's just like whole other Gileses, right? Buffy: Yes! They're scary and horrible!

'Potential'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Oct 06, 2009 7:28:29 pm PDT #25493 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Aims, just, wow. Maybe no one's ever explained the difference between funny and mean to her? Geez.

Epic is charitable. Though she may be onto something.

Aimee, I used to work with someone like this. Over time, it came to me (through listening between the lines of her conversation) that her family bagged on each other mercilessly as a way of connecting. Notice I didn't say loving. Just the only way they knew to speak to each other.

After a particularly inappropriate comment about my wardrobe (again), I turned to her and said, "When the people in my family said stuff like that, they meant it. [insert withering stare here] I sure hope you don't." [insert powerwalk down the hall and away here]

It worked.

In my experience, trying to get back at someone on their level never really works. Except for its recreational smiting opportunities, which I sometimes endorse...especially the high quality smiting found here.


WindSparrow - Oct 06, 2009 7:53:17 pm PDT #25494 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Shir, I'm sorry your sister is having such a rough time physically. And I'm sorry she feels not quite up to facing life outside the IDF. Much ~ma for her safety, and for peace for all of your family.


Trudy Booth - Oct 06, 2009 8:16:49 pm PDT #25495 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I have one (and maybe even THREE should I please them) day of work tomorrow with a particularly notorious attorney. Am I sleeping? Lands no.

Yeah, originally they wanted someone for three days. Then they said they'd try someone out for one day and decide if they'd ask them back for the next two. Seriously? This is how the world wound up with unions, people. I cannot wait for the economy to perk up a bit so the more absurd abuses of the underlings can ease off a bit.


Hil R. - Oct 06, 2009 8:24:58 pm PDT #25496 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Notorious how?

Yeah, originally they wanted someone for three days. Then they said they'd try someone out for one day and decide if they'd ask them back for the next two. Seriously? This is how the world wound up with unions, people.

Oy.


Hil R. - Oct 06, 2009 8:27:43 pm PDT #25497 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Just had to share this link. [link] It is a "crystal rubber ducky hand cooler." It is $250.


Trudy Booth - Oct 06, 2009 8:53:55 pm PDT #25498 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

He has a reputation for being a bit of a blowhard diva publicity hound.

Hopefully I'll not be working for him directly.


Trudy Booth - Oct 06, 2009 8:58:27 pm PDT #25499 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Insent to profile addy, hil.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Oct 06, 2009 10:32:01 pm PDT #25500 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Matilda is funny.

Seska - how's The Girl's family doing?

Settling in for the long haul of chemotherapy, before an assessment can be made of whether her father is eligible for surgery, which they'll decide in a couple of months. She's going to be buzzing between Tel Aviv and London for a while. I admire her strength of character - she's just getting on with it.

Shir, I don't really know what to say about your sister, but I hope she makes good choices from here on in, and that you're able to support her. Best wishes for your family's housing situation, too.


omnis_audis - Oct 06, 2009 10:56:57 pm PDT #25501 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

{{{ Shir }}}

{{{ Seska }}}

Stupid work has been keeping me busy, not keeping up in here as much as I'd like. I'm eons behind in the delurking thread! Crazy.

I tried to call dad tonight, but the phone just kept ringing, no answering machine or anything. I'm guessing the tape is full.


Shir - Oct 07, 2009 12:01:05 am PDT #25502 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Oh, she could have made worse choices (unless, God forbid, something will happen to her in the extra time she chose to spend in the army). It's just a month, and since the next Academic year she'll be able to start university will start in October 2010, few months in army to save money to start life at a better point is rational choice.

I'm just angry at her for doing so because she's afraid to start her life, that's all. But it's her business, not mine.

Good luck and ~mas to The Girl and The Girl's family (you included), Seska.