'Shindig'
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
but, uh, if I go that route I will write out what to say and try not to leave a catastrophically awkward one.
Rehearse it beforehand! Keep it short and pleasant. There should be several days of separation between the email and call.
After that, no contact to her until you get a reply. If she's got an email from you and a phone call then it's entirely up to her at that point.
These are your rules.
Yep. No more "Swingers".
this makes me think of an old Friends episode...
Well, she has two e-mails from me, assuming she received them and they did not go into her spam box. I guess maybe I will drop her a line tomorrow night to see if she is interested in Saturday and Sunday events.
Why do I feel worse about this now than I did before? Does telling you guys make it more real and not something that's just going on inside my head?
Does telling you guys make it more real and not something that's just going on inside my head?
::finger hovers over the Abort Sunil Brain In A Box project::
"He's getting close. Dangerously close...
Rehearse it beforehand! Keep it short and pleasant. There should be several days of separation between the email and call.
After that, no contact to her until you get a reply. If she's got an email from you and a phone call then it's entirely up to her at that point.
These are your rules.
I agree with all this.
Glad y'all are finding Instant Boss useful. The other thing that helps me, while I'm sharing strategies, is nowdothis.com. You put in your to do list in the correct order, hit "save," and pow! The next thing you need to do is right there, so you can't get distracted/overwhelmed by your whole list. And it will remember the list even if you shut the browser or turn off the computer.
All of which reminds that I need to get back to work.
::big hug:: I do love my Bitches!
These are your rules.
::stands with Hec::
this makes me think of an old Friends episode...
"Whatever... I'm breezy!"
Jilli, I do believe these will be added to my wardrobe.
Ooooh. Yes, get those.
I'm so glad (most) women's shirts don't need cufflinks.
But I DO have some shirts that need cufflinks!
Rehearse it beforehand! Keep it short and pleasant. There should be several days of separation between the email and call.
After that, no contact to her until you get a reply. If she's got an email from you and a phone call then it's entirely up to her at that point.
These are your rules.
These are very good rules, and I agree with all of them.
But I DO have some shirts that need cufflinks!
(in John Adams' voice) Oh good GOD.
You - YOU, JILLI - do *not* need cufflinks with which you can set people on FIRE.
(nor do I, but ha HA! you can't STOP MEEEEE!)