See, I don't get the arguing with Vortex at all. I mean, at all. I know you pretty well. Not super well, but well enough to know that I should be a little afraid of you. Which I am.

If that had been me in the GA's position, I would have said, "Well crap. I could have sworn that you said you;d meet me here. I am so sorry that I misunderstood. What is it I can do now to help this event go well?"

You know, it'd be awfully funny if the fired woman's mom called Vortex to complain....

That's arguing with me." She then said "I disagree.

Maybe she thought if she just automatically gainsayed anything you said it would just be contradiction, not an argument.

See, I don't get the arguing with Vortex at all.

Me, neither.

Maybe she thought if she just automatically gainsayed anything you said it would just be contradiction, not an argument.

Maybe she came there for abuse.

Aims is me.

I wonder if I should apologise to anyone....

FUCK no.

when I say something that you believe is incorrect and you continue to contradict me? That's arguing with me." She then said "I disagree.

Argggg. I hate reading this, because I *so* do this, and I know it makes me an asshole even while I'm doing it, but I have this ridiculously overinflated sense of justice (well, justice for *me*) and that, no, REALLY, I swear to God I'm right and you just need to listen to meeeeeeee and then you'll realize!

I gotta stop doing that.

Argggg. I hate reading this, because I *so* do this,

Yeah, I was just thinking that I do this too. I really hate getting called out on shit that isn't my fault. As an admin, it happens A LOT. It is ego damaging, and sometimes I push back- I can't help it! (And then I get called out for having a bad attitude. Which, you know, I don't push back so much on, because it's true, if that's the criteria.)

I try not to actually push back while in the wrong, though.

I really hate getting called out on shit that isn't my fault. As an admin, it happens A LOT. It is ego damaging, and sometimes I push back- I can't help it!

Incompetent!Boss, as the name may imply, often says one thing and then days later (sometimes hours) says the opposite. So my co-workers and I are often in the position of having to say to our superior "But you SAID...," which he disagrees with, which puts us in the position of arguing with him.

We have learned, though, and try to get everything in e-mail format now, so at least when we inevitably disagree with him we can pull out an e-mail and say, "Actually, you DID say..."

My life is generally easier if I don't do much pushback and get on with the fixing. I will take whatever blame so long as my shit gets done.

This is why I have a department on my shit list. It's completely their fault things are late or having to be redone or done at the last minute, but at the end of the day, it really doesn't matter, and I have to do the apologizing/begging to creative and development.