Well, if we followed the recipe...should be cake. A demon-violence-free-zone cake.

Lorne ,'Why We Fight'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


meara - Sep 19, 2009 4:15:15 pm PDT #23804 of 30000

Eep, Barb!

I stayed out late last night watching Wall-E with friends, and ended up sleeping in until 2pm today. Oops! I was having all sorts of crazy dreams. Then my friend called and clearly we did not go to the spa together, since there was not time, but we did go and hang out, and bravely decided against the pie place, and instead went to the healthy juice place for the first time, and had strange juice drinks. Mine had aloe vera juice, and beet juice, and ginger. But it was kinda yummy. It is supposed to detox my liver...


beekaytee - Sep 19, 2009 4:28:07 pm PDT #23805 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Here's hoping the routine becomes routinely easy Barb. Bless the pup's heart.

I observed the two dogs fighting with a fair bit of growling. I don't think I've ever seen two dogs of the same family/pack fight like that in person before. But that just confirms how out of balance the command structure is with them.

It goes this way sometimes, Andi. It's a matter of preference and temperament. Our first trainer gave me some great advice: "If you don't see blood...they're just talking."

The more relaxed we can be around the pooches, the less likely they are to escalate into actual aggression.

You aren't wrong about the command structure though. That can lead to so much confusion that things can spiral out of control.

I had a second session with a family today that has a crazed 4 year old who is spinning the puppy up into a frenzy. I was so relieved, at one point, to hear the da say, "Maybe we should use the same techniques on her" (meaning the kid) It took all I had to not respond, "Yes, please do!"


Barb - Sep 19, 2009 4:56:40 pm PDT #23806 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

It goes this way sometimes, Andi. It's a matter of preference and temperament.

Yeah, the girls do a fair amount of roughhousing with growling and snapping jaws and grabbing at one another's necks (the backs and sides where the skin is loose). They're just playing and taking turns at establishing dominance. This was exactly why we got Pisces-- so Jasmine would have someone she could play this way with because Mooshu just wouldn't and because he wouldn't, Jasmine was really frustrated. Her walks and fetch are fun and all, but she wanted a packmate with whom she could really play.

We got Pisces and everyone is so much mellower-- the girls get to work their energy off with each other and Mooshu's tail fur has grown back because Jasmine is no longer tugging on his tail, trying to get him to play.


brenda m - Sep 19, 2009 4:58:18 pm PDT #23807 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, bite-necks! I remember that game, and how sad it was when one of the dogs got too old to want to play that anymore.


beekaytee - Sep 19, 2009 5:31:57 pm PDT #23808 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

It's great when you can find dogs that really 'get' each other. That bond is powerful. But not always possible.

Just this evening, I was chatting with a man on the street who lamented that his female Jack 'just doesn't like some dogs.' All I could offer was, "Do YOU like everybody?" It's as if 'dog' equals one size fits all personality.


DCJensen - Sep 19, 2009 5:33:46 pm PDT #23809 of 30000
All is well that ends in pizza.

Calling All Calvins-at-heart:

Walmart has an online clearance on the "Snowball Blaster" gun. Shoots multiple snowballs p to 50 ft.


omnis_audis - Sep 19, 2009 6:02:28 pm PDT #23810 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

I get why I'm feeling anti-social, but why am I watching Ghost Rider?


Barb - Sep 19, 2009 6:03:23 pm PDT #23811 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

It's great when you can find dogs that really 'get' each other. That bond is powerful. But not always possible.

Trust me, we were petrified-- especially with Pisces being a rescue and not knowing what her background had been. But she's just such a darling girl and she's come out of her shell in the fifteen months that we've had her. It's been marvelous


erin_obscure - Sep 19, 2009 6:51:37 pm PDT #23812 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Wow, sending out mass quantities of ~ma to all thems what needs em.

The house hunting ~ma has been powerful indeed. My most recent offer was accepted, and it is on a house in an unbelievably awesome neighborhood. Like, 400% times better than i could possibly have expected. Inspection on Tuesday, and i'm excited and scared and hopeful and fearful about everything that could be wrong with it....there's already a LOT of cosmetic work that I consider to be necessary (personal opinion) but OMG i didn't dream of finding a home in a location so great in my price range.

In less awesome news, i'm pretty sure Nico has a tapeworm.

All possible kitty ills considered, it's really not a biggie. But gross. So very, very, very disgusting.


omnis_audis - Sep 19, 2009 7:02:35 pm PDT #23813 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

I realize no news is good news. But it's not helping much.

e_o that sounds very promising! And a deal in a good area means when you fix up those cosmetic issues, value goes up! Keeping my fingers crossed for you.