And remember, if you hurt her, I will beat you to death with a shovel.

Willow ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


erikaj - Sep 18, 2009 8:30:50 am PDT #23733 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

It's funny too, because I just watched "It took two people to write that song?" yesterday. Won't sing because I don't wanna cost the board $2500.


omnis_audis - Sep 18, 2009 8:42:47 am PDT #23734 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Shana tova!

Happy Birthday Erika!

{{Fred Pete}}

{{Laura}}

Dad was wheeled into surgery about 45 minutes ago. They say it will be 4-5 hours in there. Ya, not focusing much on work right now. Hmmm, I wonder why.

ION - Cass, I haven't forgotten about you! I'm hoping there is a lull in the rain tomorrow, and I'll head to the post office to drop your poster in the mail. I didn't want to transport it getting wet, it being paper and all.

ETA after reading Beep me, some Job~ma for KBD! KBD rocks! Hire! Hire! Hire!

Also, nothing-major~ma for Mooshu.


Cashmere - Sep 18, 2009 9:18:21 am PDT #23735 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

doggy~ma for Mooshu.

Congratulations, P-C!


Laura - Sep 18, 2009 9:25:36 am PDT #23736 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Continued ~ma for your dad, o_a.

Lots of doggy~ma for Mooshu.

And a big Woot! for P-C.


Calli - Sep 18, 2009 9:26:34 am PDT #23737 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Congratulations on the promotion, P-C!

And I hope everything turns out OK for Mooshu.


smonster - Sep 18, 2009 10:04:38 am PDT #23738 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

More ~ma for Mooshu and Rigatoni.

Congrats, P-C! That's terrific, especially in this economy.

2 hrs to a 3 day weekend! (Monday's my birthday and I'm taking off)


Shir - Sep 18, 2009 10:08:53 am PDT #23739 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Dear God, it is a busy day on Buffistaland!

Happy birthday, erika. I wish you'll have a wonderful year.

Congrats, P-C!

Job~ma to whomever needs it.

{{Laura}}

Continued smooth operation and recovery~ma to omnis' dad, and {{}} to omnis who deserves hugs anytime.

And much ~ma of all kinds to Buffistas' pets and humans. {{{}}}

Anyone else needs anything?


Calli - Sep 18, 2009 10:09:54 am PDT #23740 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Fred, I do hope Rigatoni can turn things around. Much cat~ma to you and Hubs.


Gudanov - Sep 18, 2009 10:12:10 am PDT #23741 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

Congratulations P-C!

((Laura)) ((Omnis)) ((Fred))((Barb))


JZ - Sep 18, 2009 10:31:02 am PDT #23742 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Vibes still going out to your dad and the team caring for him, omnis. Almost halfway done by now.

Lots and lots of pet~ma to all the critters who need it.

And happy fucking birthday, erika! The universe owes you not just a good year, but a fucking brilliant one; here's hoping it starts now.

And congrats, P-C. And please hold onto this as proof that you can be a smart, competent grown-up; hang onto it and use it to shore up your confidence when the big not-fun boundary drawing starts with your family. Everyone else has already said all the best and wisest stuff (especially Liese, but really everyone), and all I can suggest is What They Said, and maybe practice?

Do an improv. Talk to your brother. Think of the absolute worst, most wounding, wounded, manipulative things either parent could possibly say and do, and run through all the worst-case scenarios with a sib or a trusted friend until you've got a script. (I have totally done this for difficult conversations and it sounds loony but it does actually help.)