As Willow goes, so goes my nation.

Oz ,'Selfless'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Calli - Sep 15, 2009 3:44:37 am PDT #23117 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

Vortex, your dad sounds great!

Ok, random change of topic. I just got this question from a friend and don't know the answer:

Do you remember, and I'm paraphrasing, the author who said that one should look for a partner in life with whom one shares conversation, because conversation is the only thing one may have when one is old? And can you direct me to the quote?

Anyone know?

I believe there's a quote in one of Dorothy Sayers' Lord Peter books similar to this. The Dowager Duchess is musing about men picking women for looks, like a suite of living room furniture, and then having to try to have conversations with them over the dinner table 20 years later. If this might be it I'll be happy to research further, although I might get sucked into the Lord Peter books for a while in the process. Not a problem!


Barb - Sep 15, 2009 3:46:11 am PDT #23118 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Seska, I blame this on the coffee not kicking in yet, but many thoughts and ~ma for TG and you and of course, TG's dad.


Laura - Sep 15, 2009 3:47:56 am PDT #23119 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

{{Seska and family}} My neighbor was diagnosed the same week as Swayze and all the publicity surrounding his ups and downs were watched closely. We thought we were going to lose him several times after his surgery and horrific chemo. I just was talking to him in the driveway a couple days ago and he is doing great now. Looks fabulous and seems healthier than I have seen him in 10 years. The doctors were talking 5-10% chance when he first had surgery. Scary shit. I know the Swayze loss is going to hit him and his partner hard.


sj - Sep 15, 2009 3:48:35 am PDT #23120 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Seska, I was not quite awake enough either. Tons of ~ma for TG's dad.


Sparky1 - Sep 15, 2009 3:51:02 am PDT #23121 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

Seska, much ~ma for The Girl's father.


sj - Sep 15, 2009 3:59:26 am PDT #23122 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Happy Birthday, Nora!!!


Laura - Sep 15, 2009 4:08:10 am PDT #23123 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Happy Birthday to Nora!!


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Sep 15, 2009 4:13:16 am PDT #23124 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Many thanks for the ~ma, all. It helps a lot to know that people are thinking of us. The Girl flies out to Houston for a week, next week, to be with her family where her dad has investigations. Her latest show is about to start, and go on for three weeks including that week when she's away, so she's going slightly loopy trying to find technicians to cover for her and deal with other related stuff. Bit stressful. But it's good that she can go and be with her family.

It's wet, muggy and autumnal here. This is sleepiness-causing.

Birthday happies to Nora!


beth b - Sep 15, 2009 4:13:51 am PDT #23125 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

ma~ for the Girl's father

happy birthday Nora.

Great story vortex!

and I wish there was a ritual of sorts -- but a cake or commemorative plate seem wrong


Nora Deirdre - Sep 15, 2009 4:15:50 am PDT #23126 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

~ma to you and yours, Seska.

Aw, Cindy! I am glad you shared.

Yay birthday! I decree this day to be AWESOME FOR EVERYONE.