She's not just a blob of energy, she's also a 14-year-old hormone bomb.

Spike ,'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 7:18:00 pm PDT #22101 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

I love you, man.


NoiseDesign - Sep 06, 2009 7:18:23 pm PDT #22102 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

I've made a snap judgement, I can't love you anymore.


Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 7:19:13 pm PDT #22103 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

billytea - Sep 06, 2009 7:20:24 pm PDT #22104 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I've made a snap judgement, I can't love you anymore.

Oh, snap!


Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 7:20:41 pm PDT #22105 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

I've made a snap judgement, snapped years ago.

Fixed it for you, Drew.


beth b - Sep 06, 2009 7:22:55 pm PDT #22106 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

We just get extra worried for YOU,sean.

If we knew her we'd have to be all balanced, and stuff.

But, if you are willing to wait , it is still better that she knows you are waiting. Esp, if you are going to be busy and you are in an ambiguous place. You don't want her to think You are mad or even impaitent.


DavidS - Sep 06, 2009 7:24:14 pm PDT #22107 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

[disappeared]


Sean K - Sep 06, 2009 7:26:57 pm PDT #22108 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

Trudy Booth - Sep 06, 2009 7:31:46 pm PDT #22109 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

It's not that she's craxy. But she's clearly afraid, and has been seriously fucked over. I've been trying to tread carefully. Maybe she's not worth the struggle, but I really think she is. I just don't know if I'm going to succeed.

Only speaking for myself, but lately I'm all, "I'm too goddam old to hang around trying to fix you."

Basically, if you're not ready to make the leap from whatever fucked up before and move on, get back to me when you are. I mean, if you ARE ready to give it a shot I've got a wealth of patience and affection and all that shit. I think you're awesome -- I'm in.

But sometimes it's not a matter so much of "Is s/he WORTH it" as "Is s/he ready/willing/able/going to take the field." I'm not going to stand out there going, "C'mon... It's nice here... I'm smiling and don't bite..." for very long if you're just going to bounce around doing an emotional pee-pee dance.


beth b - Sep 06, 2009 7:41:02 pm PDT #22110 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

eh, Trust does take a long time. I don't think I have any reason to have issues about trust-- but it takes a long time for me to really trust people.