Snap judgements are all I have!
You can't take them from me!
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Snap judgements are all I have!
You can't take them from me!
I love you, man.
I've made a snap judgement, I can't love you anymore.
I've made a snap judgement, I can't love you anymore.
Oh, snap!
I've made a snap judgement,snapped years ago.
Fixed it for you, Drew.
We just get extra worried for YOU,sean.
If we knew her we'd have to be all balanced, and stuff.
But, if you are willing to wait , it is still better that she knows you are waiting. Esp, if you are going to be busy and you are in an ambiguous place. You don't want her to think You are mad or even impaitent.
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It's not that she's craxy. But she's clearly afraid, and has been seriously fucked over. I've been trying to tread carefully. Maybe she's not worth the struggle, but I really think she is. I just don't know if I'm going to succeed.
Only speaking for myself, but lately I'm all, "I'm too goddam old to hang around trying to fix you."
Basically, if you're not ready to make the leap from whatever fucked up before and move on, get back to me when you are. I mean, if you ARE ready to give it a shot I've got a wealth of patience and affection and all that shit. I think you're awesome -- I'm in.
But sometimes it's not a matter so much of "Is s/he WORTH it" as "Is s/he ready/willing/able/going to take the field." I'm not going to stand out there going, "C'mon... It's nice here... I'm smiling and don't bite..." for very long if you're just going to bounce around doing an emotional pee-pee dance.