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Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Polter-Cow - Sep 03, 2009 11:50:20 am PDT #21797 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Tom and I are fully indulging in a fantasy that we will move to San Francisco in 2010. What are some good neighborhoods that I can look for places on Craigslist for?

You can live in my attic!

I don't cared that she found out-- that was kind of the point of the experiment. I don't care that she told our small circle of friends. I do, however, care that she didn't listen to what I was trying to say and dismissed what she did hear as if I was trying to make up some sort of cheap excuse to cover my ass.

I'd be annoyed too.


juliana - Sep 03, 2009 11:53:38 am PDT #21798 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

But that's mostly because it's where all of the bars I know are (not counting the Castro, of course, but that's crazy expensive).

North Beach ain't much cheaper. I'm liking Polk Gulch - bars are good, eating's good, and it's relatively central to everything.


JZ - Sep 03, 2009 11:59:14 am PDT #21799 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

Nora, Hayes Valley (Dark Garden! Absinthe! Citizen Cake!) and the Mission (Pirate supply store! Paxton Gate! Borderlands!Tons of art galleries and funky bars and rambly overcrowded bookshops!) and Cole Valley/Inner Sunset (Eos! The Booksmith! The park and the museums and Matilda!).


-t - Sep 03, 2009 1:02:18 pm PDT #21800 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

A friend of mine recently moved to Dogpatch and really likes it, but I haven't been to visit her yet so I don't know first hand.


DavidS - Sep 03, 2009 2:32:30 pm PDT #21801 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I think you might like the Duboce Triangle area, Nora.

It's between the Lower Haight (Toronado) and the Castro with a big park and lots of trees.

But it really kind of depends on a variety of things and what y our priorities are. Do you want to be close to a main Muni line so you guys can work downtown? Want a neighborhood that's quiet and treelined or sunny, or you can tolerate fog if it's close to GG Park? That kind of thing.

I can lead you guys around a few spots if you like.


DavidS - Sep 03, 2009 2:32:55 pm PDT #21802 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Hey Barb! Matilda got a package from Jacksonville today.


Aims - Sep 03, 2009 2:50:40 pm PDT #21803 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Can I be admitty-type lady?

I *loathe* giving Emeline a bath. Like, out of all the mom things, it's the one I hate most.

There. I'm a bad mom.


Cashmere - Sep 03, 2009 2:52:19 pm PDT #21804 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

Baths stress me out, too, Aims. The kids tend to fight over bath toys and getting them out is like pulling teeth. Then there is the mess to clean up.

I admit, I don't bathe mine every night for this reason.


Nora Deirdre - Sep 03, 2009 2:53:46 pm PDT #21805 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Well, the hope is I pass my comps, we get rid of a LOT of crap in our house, and Tom finds an awesome job- then I can look around for something, and then we can hopefully figure out what the best move is from there.

I am intrigued by the Lower Haight due to its proximity to the Toronado. (great minds think alike, Hec, that's the first neighborhood I looked at on CL.)

I don't know where this is coming. I think it's because we are so excited for our trip out there and we are both frustrated and annoyed at our current jobs, and are not feeling great about prospects here in the future (that might not be a true feeling, but it's our headspace.)

The only things that make me hesitate are the financial situation of CA as well as the fact, well, the whole Proposition 8 thing. There's a unquantifiable attachment to living in a region that has legalized gay marriage. I know that probably sounds dumb, though. These are 2 relatively minor, yet niggling, concerns.

I'm so restless. I've lived my entire life in a 100 mile radius. (whatever Hartford CT to Salem MA is.) I know also that Tom wants to live out there, has since moving to the US.

ION, who's got two thumbs and got to go out for cheeseburgers with Ellen S.? THIS GUY!


Aims - Sep 03, 2009 2:57:34 pm PDT #21806 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

It's like, she turns her ears off and just becomes even more annoying, which makes me more snappish and means. More of our fights have stemmed from bathtime than any other time because I hate them so much.

Nora - I totally get the feeling restless and wanting to move cross country. I';ve done it twice and both times, it sucked at the beginning, but was, overall, the best decision I could have made.