This is my boat. They're part of my crew. No one's getting left. Best you get used to that.

Mal ,'Ariel'


Spike's Bitches 44: It's about the rules having changed.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


sj - Feb 15, 2009 6:46:34 am PST #1034 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Happy Belated Anniversary to Deena and Greg!!!

I spent every Valentine's Day alone until I met TCG. To me it's not about the money spent or stuff, but a day to make sure I tell him how much I appreciate him, although I try to do that all the time anyway. Plus, I will take any excuse to dress up, go out for a nice dinners, and get TCG to wear a tie. I'm sorry if my mentioning our Vaentine's Day upset anyone.

FWIW, when I was single. I used Valentine's Day as an excuse to treat myself to a special day.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 15, 2009 7:07:21 am PST #1035 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I'm sorry if my mentioning our Vaentine's Day upset anyone.

FWIW, I'm not upset in the slightest. My views on Valentine's Day, weddings, and diamond engagement rings (not the blood diamond thing, just how lame it is that they are the standard for engagement) are fairly outlier and I understand that.

I'm glad you had a nice day. Everyone should have nice days like that every once in a while!


DavidS - Feb 15, 2009 7:18:48 am PST #1036 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm sorry if my mentioning our Vaentine's Day upset anyone.

Jesus, sj, you don't have to apologize for Valentine's Day.

are fairly outlier and I understand that.

Not around here. There's a lot of Valentine resentment hereabouts.

But I'm all for: sex, chocolate, strawberry tarts shaped like hearts, "I Choo-Choo-Choo Choose You," champagne and fancy dinners out, kissing and holidays that celebrate those things.

We celebrated Valentine's Day with cupcakes. I got four different kinds. Matilda selected the chocolate one with the red candy heart on top. Emmett took the one with pink coconut frosting (while loudly bemoaning that Matilda got first pick). JZ had the lemon cupcake with a little tiny frosting bee with almond sliver wings. And I had the chocolate with fleur de sel and a butterscotch core in the middle. They all had some kind of mousse or filling in them which was delicious.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 15, 2009 7:33:41 am PST #1037 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

ooh, we had cupcakes yesterday too! Not as fancy as your, but still delicious. I had a chocolate sour cream cupcake with chocolate espresso buttercream frosting and Tom had an orange rum cupcake with vanilla buttercream and candied orange on top. Yum! Excellent reward after getting the bed put together.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 15, 2009 7:37:42 am PST #1038 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Cereal:

But I'm all for: sex, chocolate, strawberry tarts shaped like hearts, "I Choo-Choo-Choo Choose You," champagne and fancy dinners out, kissing and holidays that celebrate those things.

I'm all for those things to but don't like waiting for a specific day to do them.

My personal opinion is that V-Day doesn't celebrate those things, it commercializes them and sets up crazy expectations. However, I'm glad that you were able to find a way to celebrate it without that baggage, and I know a lot of people do also.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 15, 2009 7:45:07 am PST #1039 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

More cereal:

Also bear in mind that I also hate Christmas as a holiday. I'm not crazy about New Years and Halloween either. So, you know, I've got all sorts of cranky going on all year round.

Holidays I do like: Thanksgiving, Cinco de Mayo, and 4th of July.

Am neutral on: Memorial Day, Labor Dabor, and Easter.

Please to update my file!


tommyrot - Feb 15, 2009 7:47:10 am PST #1040 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

How about Arbor Day?


Barb - Feb 15, 2009 7:48:28 am PST #1041 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

I'm the biggest, most romantic sap on the planet and even I treat Valentine's sort of like another day. I think it's because I AM the biggest most romantic sap on the planet and I like celebrating little things at unexpected times.

Like when I was so sick last week, Lewis bringing me home piña colada cake and coconut sesame ice cream because he knew it would make me feel better. That's romance enough for me.

The best thing about V-day though? All the discount chocolate today. Although I'm holding out for Easter and the Cadbury Creme Eggs.


Nora Deirdre - Feb 15, 2009 7:52:12 am PST #1042 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Arbor Day, I am also neutral on. Heh. I do like Flag Day, though, because that's a good friend's birthday.


omnis_audis - Feb 15, 2009 7:57:06 am PST #1043 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Also bear in mind that I also hate Christmas as a holiday. I'm not crazy about New Years and Halloween either. So, you know, I've got all sorts of cranky going on all year round.

Holidays I do like: Thanksgiving, Cinco de Mayo, and 4th of July.

I'm sitting with Nora. I hate the over commercialization of the holidays. For example, a store around the corner had Valentine decorations up on December 27th. Let's get New Years out the door first people! Granted, it was a condom store, but still!

(Although, I could care less about Cinco de Mayo)