Also bear in mind that I also hate Christmas as a holiday. I'm not crazy about New Years and Halloween either. So, you know, I've got all sorts of cranky going on all year round.

Holidays I do like: Thanksgiving, Cinco de Mayo, and 4th of July.

I'm sitting with Nora. I hate the over commercialization of the holidays. For example, a store around the corner had Valentine decorations up on December 27th. Let's get New Years out the door first people! Granted, it was a condom store, but still!

(Although, I could care less about Cinco de Mayo)

I think it's because I AM the biggest most romantic sap on the planet and I like celebrating little things at unexpected times.

Like when I was so sick last week, Lewis bringing me home piña colada cake and coconut sesame ice cream because he knew it would make me feel better. That's romance enough for me.

I totally agree. Sometimes I'll be, I don't know, putting groceries away or cooking or something, and Tom will come up to me and give me the awesomest, sexiest kiss out of the blue. I love that! A few weeks ago, we spontaneously decided to go out for dinner at a nice romantic restaurant, and it made me so happy because it was so unexpected.

We have our own traditions as well that we've created. For example, last leap day (in 2008) I sent Tom an arrangement of flowers at work thanking him for saying yes to my proposal the previous leap day in 2004.

Whatever works, I say!

I used to be pretty enthused about all holidays. Loved to decorate the house and cook special stuff. In recent years I have become more hum bug about all of them and haven't had the ambition to make a big deal.

I've decided I've missed the fuss and will revert back again. I'm planning a bit of fun for my birthday and will be sure to do St. Paty's day up right with corned beef and green cupcakes.

Whatever works, I say!

Indeed.

Oh, right. St. Patrick's Day is also on The List of holidays I dislike. Although I do love me some Irish Soda Bread. In Boston it's so amateur night. Lots of drunkenness. See also: New Year's Eve and Halloween (specific to Salem MA). Speaking of nummy baked goods, the best holiday tradition we have around Xmas is making the fruitcake, which we do usually on Thanksgiving weekend, and then we eat it starting on Xmas Eve or Day.

o_a, Cinco de Mayo is on my list of faves because it is also our kissaversary, and I lured Tom out on a pretext of Cinco de Mayo beer drinking.

Local holiday I've always loved: Patriot's Day! Random day off work, marathon, and the start of spring. (it's in mid-April)

I mean, I don't mean to shit on anyone's Valentine's Day, but I just find the concept so fucking lame. Like weddings, I guess I just see it as the marketing of love or love=money spent and I find it immensely distasteful.

If you are an outlier, I'm lyng out with you.

My life as a florist, weddng officiant, couples counselor and event planner has SOW-ered me on Valentine's Day. The commercialization of love and the socially sanctioned disdain this 'holiday' engendered just sets my teeth to grinding.

When I was a florist, I dubbed 15Feb as NAG Day. National Agita and Guilt Day. If 'love was in the air' the previous day, the 15th reaked of dissapointment, disgust and disolution. Blegh.

It just strikes me as so sad that people (who don't enjoy the day-more power to them) so desperately hang their hopes on being appreciated on their partner's performance on a day manufactured by commercial interests.

My best experiences of VDay were at my stepmother's hand, oddly enough. She started giving me little gifts in my teens. It was nice because we didn't really get on that well and, at least on that day, she seemed to want to reach out. So, that was nice.

eta: d is close to s on the keyboard but doesn't have the same effect.

Local holiday I've always loved: Patriot's Day! Random day off work, marathon, and the start of spring. (it's in mid-April)

And the legal drinking outside! Is that still a thing? I still miss Patriot's Day and I haven't lived in Boston for 19 years. oh my god I'm old! yikes

One of my favorite childhood holidays was Deer Season Day. November 15 is the start of deer season (regular firearm) in Michigan. My home town was very, very into it. There were a lot of hunters, and a number of people who made their money from city folk who'd come up north for deer hunting and need guides and forest access. Dad shared a hunting cabin with some friends, and, as he drank far less than they did, he'd always come home with poker winnings that he'd share around. There'd be sales and "deer widow" restaurant specials that Mom would take me to. A lot of students, especially the boys and especially after we hit the teens, would take hunting day off with their dads' blessing, so the teachers would usually plan a slacker day with movies in class or extra-credit work for those who bothered to show up.

I love VD, but I owe that to my parents. When we were kids, we took turns decorating the Valentine Box (usually a shoe box), which we would then put the valentines we got from aunts and uncles. We were not allowed to look inside. We also all made valentines for each other. After dinner on Valentine's day dinner, my dad would bring in The Box and open it with great fanfare. We would hand out the valentines and admire them. I would often write little poems. One year my brother, who always claimed brown m&ms were the best and would trade with us to get them and sometimes steal them, made me a heart of only brown m&ms glued on a piece of paper.

It was fun and had to do with family rather than couplehood. I still enjoy it.

I'm celebrating My Taxes Are Filed Day. Soon to be followed by Spending the Return Day.

Of course the headache I have now is worth it for our return but still.

Prior to having kids, the holidays were less important, but I'm starting to enjoy their participation and fun. We still celebrate the random things we love about life like Pajama Day, Cake for Breakfast Day and the odd, Be Quiet So Mommy's Head Doesn't Explode.

I like holidays because I like celebrating, and though it would be nice if I took the time to celebrate in some meaningful way throughout the year and without commercial prompting, I don't as often as I'd like. And speaking as someone who's had a partner most of her adult life but spent most holidays and birthdays alone because of said partners' work schedules, it's nice to be reminded to celebrate on those few holidays we both manage to spend together. I have never really celebrated Valentine's Day because my birthday is so close that it always seems like an awful lot to expect from someone, but I'm certain I would under other circumstances. Sure, it's commercialized, but that doesn't mean it can't also be fun! (Don't mind me, I'll just be the schmoopy optimist about it.)

Anyway, it was moot for me anyway. First year we've both been around on Valentines, and I've spent 48 hours sick as a dog, asleep in bed when I wasn't getting sick or in urgent care. Right now is the first time I've felt tentatively normal(ish) since the 12th, and I'm still on anti-nausea meds. Ah, the romance.