Poor Buffy. Your life resists all things average.

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Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Feb 18, 2009 1:21:55 pm PST #6919 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I just filed a complaint against a telemarketer through the FCC.

Today is not the day to be irritating on the phone and then hang up on me.


Kathy A - Feb 18, 2009 1:29:55 pm PST #6920 of 30000
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

Oooh, details, please?


Dana - Feb 18, 2009 1:34:20 pm PST #6921 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Of my telemarketer smackdown?

Since I'm home all day, I'm here when they call. Often I just ignore them (thank you, caller ID), but recently I've been picking up to get my number taken off the list.

When I answered the phone this time, the recorded message was totally unintelligible. So I pressed 1. I got a woman who asked for the make and model of my car.

I said, "Please put me on your do not call list."

She said, "Why wouldn't you want to protect your car? This is VERY IMPORTANT."

I said, somewhat less politely, "The recorded message doesn't work. Please put me on your do not call list."

Then she hung up on me.

Then I discovered that according to the FCC, "pre-recorded commercial messages" are generally unlawful.

Irritated me + caller ID + the internet = FCC complaint. And I kind of want them to try calling me again.


DavidS - Feb 18, 2009 1:48:39 pm PST #6922 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I can see how these factors could produce the desire for a good grade, but not the sense that one was entitled to it, which is clearly present.

I suspect it's from parenting trends over the last fifteen to twenty years, which have trended towards "Everything you do is awesome and praiseworthy. I validate your specialness. You are special and deserve all good things. You tied your shoes - let's have ice cream!"

Like that. Hence, showing up equals a B. The grade B means good, and trying is good. So if you try you deserve a B.

I think that's the behavioral brain math behind the entitlement creep.


msbelle - Feb 18, 2009 1:51:35 pm PST #6923 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Damn I hate entitlement like that. HATE.


flea - Feb 18, 2009 1:53:14 pm PST #6924 of 30000
information libertarian

Just what I always wanted - Tornado warning in the middle of dinner!

Seems to have passed to our south, but I was genuinely scared for the first time in a while. We camped out in the windowless hallway and finished our dinner.

Now Casper is overjoyed because mr. flea brought home Harry Potter #1 for her. I think she is a little young, but we'll see.


Hil R. - Feb 18, 2009 1:57:30 pm PST #6925 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

At least once a semester, someone in my department will have to deal with a "but I'm a good student!" student. The student who complains about a grade based on "I'm a good student, therefore I should get a good grade." This student does not actually make any arguments about test or quiz or homework scores, just "I'm a good student." Seriously, at least one per semester.


flea - Feb 18, 2009 1:59:28 pm PST #6926 of 30000
information libertarian

I had a student I was trying to help this morning via IM attempt to search for articles using the "search the website" box at the top of the library web page - after I had already directed hir to click the link to actually get into the database.


megan walker - Feb 18, 2009 2:10:49 pm PST #6927 of 30000
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

I suspect it's from parenting trends over the last fifteen to twenty years, which have trended towards "Everything you do is awesome and praiseworthy. I validate your specialness. You are special and deserve all good things. You tied your shoes - let's have ice cream!"

I'm sure it is. And I don't think it's just parents.

I don't mind the "but I'm a good student" student so much because that argument is fairly easy to shut down since often a good student knows they've done crappy work even if they don't want to admit it.

The "I worked really hard" student is much harder to convince.


shrift - Feb 18, 2009 2:11:47 pm PST #6928 of 30000
"You can't put a price on the joy of not giving a shit." -Zenkitty

Ahahahahaha, DUDE: [link]

ETA: Not work-safe.