I'm a single undead gal trying to make it in the big city. I have to start somewhere and they're evil here. They don't judge. They've got necro-tempered glass. No burning up. A great medical plan, and who needs dental more than us?

Harmony ,'Conviction (1)'


Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Jesse - Jul 08, 2009 8:56:03 am PDT #28023 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Ah, it looks like there are a bunch of different laws and regulations that relate to marriage, but I'm betting they all just use the term without further definition. [link]


Kathy A - Jul 08, 2009 9:01:53 am PDT #28024 of 30000
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

I'm seriously contemplating skipping lunch today. I had a big breakfast at 8:00, and my stomach isn't growling and is also feeling a bit queasy for some reason, so I don't know if I want to eat anything anyway.

I can always run over to the cafeteria before they close at 3:00 and pick up some fruit and other munchies if I do get hungry.


Vortex - Jul 08, 2009 9:02:04 am PDT #28025 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I think of it as a state thing anyway.

that's because it IS. Family law is STATE law, not federal, which is why this federal shit pisses me off so badly. I went off on my (then) senator about it when it first came up.


Vortex - Jul 08, 2009 9:05:48 am PDT #28026 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I think most states recognize marriages and divorces performed in other states. Well, the heterosexual marriages anyway.

there's a concept called Full Faith and Credit, where states agree to recognize contracts from other states, and marriage is considered a contract. It's why you don't have to get married in a new state if you move.

Part of the issue with civil unions as opposed to marriage is that many laws are written with "marriage" as a term of art. If you are not "married", you may not have the particular right that is afforded to someone with that particular legal status.


Nora Deirdre - Jul 08, 2009 9:06:47 am PDT #28027 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I'm seriously contemplating skipping lunch today. I had a big breakfast at 8:00, and my stomach isn't growling and is also feeling a bit queasy for some reason, so I don't know if I want to eat anything anyway.

Yeah, eating when hungry and not eating when not hungry is good- figuring out what your body wants is tough business. Sometimes it wants ice cream, sometime juice, sometimes,... nothing.


Burrell - Jul 08, 2009 9:09:54 am PDT #28028 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Yay for bike-riding Sara!

Boo for anger-making family members for Cash! I think your plan is more than fair to them.

I have just emptied out the house (DH was working on my computer all morning) so yay for getting a chance to sit down and write.


Sue - Jul 08, 2009 9:14:04 am PDT #28029 of 30000
hip deep in pie

I am hungry and I ate lunch three hours ago.


tommyrot - Jul 08, 2009 9:16:05 am PDT #28030 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Oh, I saw a cool t-shirt the other day - it said:

Meat is murder.
Tasty, tasty murder.

Well, I couldn't read the whole thing, but I think the first word of line two was "Tasty."

eta: found it: [link]

Also, where we talking about this the other day?

[link]

Or was it in Bitches?


Polter-Cow - Jul 08, 2009 9:17:05 am PDT #28031 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Yeah, that's a Threadless shirt.


tommyrot - Jul 08, 2009 9:18:18 am PDT #28032 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

P-C, did you see my edit with this link?

[link]

That was you talking about something similar, right?