20% is the default in NYC unless it's automatically calculated by the restaurant (for large parties, in which case it's usuall 18%).
If you tip less than 20% your server will likely assume you're an ignorant tourist or a bigwig in the Republican party. (Tips when the RNC was in town a few years back were, by all accounts, offensively low. Because, you know, nothing says "I have three mansions and a Senate seat" like handing your waitress $5 on a $100 meal and calling her "sweetheart.")
I just tend towards 20% of total, tax included, knowing what waitstaff makes.
Intriguing. Guess I've been overtipping. Which is better than undertipping, at least.
is it 20% of the total with or without tax?
Without tax. Though I routinely just do the easiest calculation, which is move the decimal place over on the total bill and double it to get 20%.
I've learned to tip 20%, perhaps because my gramps was in the restaurant business as are both my brothers. What I don't get is my mother's newfound insistence to not tip on the tax. I haven't done the math, but I can't see it being that big of a difference (for smaller bills, at least).
When dissatisfied, I give 15% and throw in whatever pennies I have as a chin flick (it makes me feel like not total shit when all I want to do is leave the pennies).
eta that okay, it seems like it's not New new, but her adamantness is.
In your dads' defense, I am pretty sure 10% used to be standard, and 15% was good.
Oh, it was. He just can't get with NOW.
I would never have thought not to tip on the tax if it weren't for the internet.
20% is definitely the NYC norm.
Wasn't
18%
the NYC norm thirty seconds ago?
Guys, I'm not going any higher than 20. Seriously. Tip creep has got to stop somewhere. Even in NYC. I tend to over-tip anyway, but we need to leave me some room to do that.
I mean, I
thought
I over-tipped. Man, I'm losing all my over-tip cred. And, no, I don't tip on the tax.
Are we just talking restaurants? Or taxis and hair dressers too?