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Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


P.M. Marc - Jun 25, 2009 9:09:04 am PDT #25808 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

My take on the Sanford affair is that affairs are an issue of personal ethics, not public ethics. As far as his personal life goes, that's between him and his family. That he'd leave the country without taking steps to make sure someone knew where he was and that someone was in charge? Those are violations of the public trust.

Yeah. I mean, I do feel sorry for the guy. I suspect he probably wasn't looking to fall in love and had pre-existing issues in his marriage, because human relationships are complicated things and sometimes, you feel lonely even while partnered and your unmet emotional needs find their outlet elsewhere. These things happen. But while it explains, it doesn't excuse the public trust violations.


erikaj - Jun 25, 2009 9:13:53 am PDT #25809 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

And it's not right to make people worry about you, much less a state. yeah, it would seem that polyamory is more arranged and agreed upon than this Sanford thing.(Not that I know personally...the internets is just a place to learn and discuss these things.)


lisah - Jun 25, 2009 9:27:28 am PDT #25810 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

oh, man, I need to NOT go back and look at the comments in that Sun blog I commented in. Somebody just said I wasn't "bright" enough to understand all the griping in there. sheesh. i've got to let it go. people are just assholes, evidently!

Polyamory implies consent by all parties to me. Maybe that was going on here or not. It doesn't sound like it. Regardless, his email messages are still creepy to me.


tommyrot - Jun 25, 2009 9:39:35 am PDT #25811 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Another freaky-ass optical illusion: Blue and Green? No, They are the Same Color.


Gudanov - Jun 25, 2009 9:44:03 am PDT #25812 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

That is freaky cool!

I had to load it up in an image editor just make sure it really is the same color and it showed me that it was indeed. Man, I really am from Missouri.


DavidS - Jun 25, 2009 9:49:16 am PDT #25813 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Wow. Even cooler in the closeups where you can UnFool your brain and see that it's the same color.


Ginger - Jun 25, 2009 9:49:26 am PDT #25814 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

My take on the Sanford affair is that affairs are an issue of personal ethics, not public ethics. As far as his personal life goes, that's between him and his family. That he'd leave the country without taking steps to make sure someone knew where he was and that someone was in charge? Those are violations of the public trust.

I am Burrell in this. While I admit to gleeful schadenfreude when a family-values type is caught in an epic fail of family values, I don't think it's malfeasance unless it involves use of public funds. It does cause one to seriously question his judgment in general, though. It's the abdication of his office that's unforgivable.

It's too bad about Farrah Fawcett, but the death that really hit me was Jeri Nielsen's [link] She's the doctor who treated herself for breast cancer at the South Pole.


Gudanov - Jun 25, 2009 9:56:30 am PDT #25815 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

My take on the Sanford affair is that affairs are an issue of personal ethics, not public ethics. As far as his personal life goes, that's between him and his family.

Only insofar as he does not attempt to legislate other people's personal lives.


Glamcookie - Jun 25, 2009 9:59:07 am PDT #25816 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Only insofar as he does not attempt to legislate other people's personal lives.

Word. He is anti-gay marriage, but apparently adultery is just dandy. Asshole.


lisah - Jun 25, 2009 9:59:44 am PDT #25817 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Word. He is anti-gay marriage, but apparently adultery is just dandy. Asshole.

my feelings exactly!