You've got my support. Just think of me as...as your... You know, I'm searching for 'supportive things' and I'm coming up all bras.

Xander ,'Empty Places'


Natter 63: Life after PuppyCam  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Gudanov - May 28, 2009 6:23:20 am PDT #21606 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

Happy Birthday Sean!

I set up my new birthday computer monitor last night. It is awesome. My old monitor is going to become the treadmill monitor, but I'm going to put it on a swing arm so it can swing about and act as a TV for the kids in the basement. The kids will also get some beanbag chairs for down there.


Jessica - May 28, 2009 6:31:25 am PDT #21607 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

IdonotwanttoliveinthesuburbsIdonotwanttoliveinthesuburbs.

Sigh. Want nother baby. Want bigger house.


Aims - May 28, 2009 6:32:16 am PDT #21608 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I'm with ya, Jessica.


tommyrot - May 28, 2009 6:32:45 am PDT #21609 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Birthday Happies, Sean!

ION, we are getting new computers at work next week. I'll get rid of my current dual-monitor setup, and replace it with quad-monitors (with two monitors placed above the other two).

Also, instead of my three work computers (and a KVM switch) I'll have one computer with virtualization so I can still have multiple computers set up.

That will rock muchly.


amych - May 28, 2009 6:33:03 am PDT #21610 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Cute house. But you don't want to live in the suburbs.


Aims - May 28, 2009 6:35:15 am PDT #21611 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

This is our house. [link]

The suburbs aren't bad...


Gudanov - May 28, 2009 6:36:23 am PDT #21612 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

It looks like a nice house. It would be about 1/5th that price in my suburban town though. Yikes.


Gudanov - May 28, 2009 6:37:02 am PDT #21613 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - May 28, 2009 6:44:59 am PDT #21614 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

IdonotwanttoliveinthesuburbsIdonotwanttoliveinthesuburbs.

Tarrytown! For suburbs, you could do worse. (I lived in Ossining, NY for a year. It's really beautiful around the Hudson.)


tommyrot - May 28, 2009 6:48:47 am PDT #21615 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Huh.

Bitterness as mental illness?

You know them. I know them. And, increasingly, psychiatrists know them. People who feel they have been wronged by someone and are so bitter they can barely function other than to ruminate about their circumstances.

This behavior is so common -- and so deeply destructive -- that some psychiatrists are urging it be identified as a mental illness under the name post-traumatic embitterment disorder. The behavior was discussed before an enthusiastic audience last week at a meeting of the American Psychiatric Assn. in San Francisco.

The disorder is modeled after post-traumatic stress disorder because it too is a response to a trauma that endures. People with PTSD are left fearful and anxious. Embittered people are left seething for revenge.

"They feel the world has treated them unfairly. It's one step more complex than anger. They're angry plus helpless," says Dr. Michael Linden, a German psychiatrist who named the behavior.

I'm not seething for revenge. Good. No post-traumatic embitterment disorder for me....