This was the one Jon linked to, it's about cleaning up your wall: [link]

This one is about managing groups: [link]

Amy, under settings, select the Account Settings. The Notifications tab lets you turn the notifications off and on for all the applications and messages.

My dad joined facebook and my mom has talked about it. I told them "buyer beware" but it's not like I put anything up on there they'd be shocked at anyway.

My back hurts from my massage today. owie but good. hope it is not so owie on Saturday. Also, that it doesn't rain. I think hopes of that are pretty dashed though. Still will be fun.

You're actually getting emails, as in sent to your email address? Or just notifications?

Yeah! Notifications to my email. How else do you get notifications? You mean just on the board itself?

Amy, under settings, select the Account Settings. The Notifications tab lets you turn the notifications off and on for all the applications and messages.

I just couldn't find one specifically for that option, though.

Yeah, I only get mine on the board. Lemme go look.

Amy, go to: [link]

And then you'll see two long columns with radio buttons. These manage your email settings.

Under groups, I think you turn off "Replies to my discussion board post"

Yup, what Sue says, which is about halfway down the page on the link I posted. It's weird that it's under "groups", not intuitive at all.

You guys are very patient with someone who was being an incredible ditz. Thank you!

::hangs head in shame::

Dude, I had not idea where the Birthdays went for weeks! Navigating Facebook lately feels like trying to find your way around your house blindfolded after someone has rearranged the furniture.

Go here for the Facebook privacy settings walk-through.

I've been through that before; it doesn't talk about how to limit who sees your status updates.