I like prunes, actually.

{{Theodosia}} You do not suck as a caretaker because you care. It is caretakers that don't give a crap that suck. I'm sorry it is so difficult. I had so many fights with my dad and husband over getting them to do what they were supposed to do when caring for them. Fighting with those you love when they are sick, that sucks.

My mom used to can plum preserves that were very yummy. We had a tree that produces zillions of them. They were tart and sweet and delish. I'll have to ask her how she managed that.

Did we hear how ita made out with her procedure? I did some skippage. I really hope it helps.

Speaking of parental units, my step-dad sent me pictures this morning of the two of them at 3 of their community clubhouse parties. First one is a pajama party this morning where they won funniest. Then a couple from the last two parties. Mom is 86 and he is 71. They are insanely cute and always holding hands and doing silly stuff together.

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They are adorable, Laura.

Aww, they look sweet, Laura.

Laura, they are so cute!!

Theo, I might gentley let it slip that if you can't take care of her ( as in she is not co-operating) that there is another option out there. It might cause more crying, but it will be easier on your mom, your aunt and you. Nurses are not involved in the same way you are -- so they can deal with the tears better.

Thanks, all. They have the usual share of age related health issues, but they still do stuff together and adore each other's company. I hope all our golden years are as pleasant.

Mona does not care for our dog training studies.

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Mona is a cutiehead!

Good luck with your dog-training, Allyson. My girl and I are working on Paying Attention, which task is aided by the liberal application of cooked beef liver. Ew. But she definitely cares more about paying attention when it's icky liver instead of clean little kibbles.