I don't understand the impulse to hate on either of them just because the other one is your woobie of choice. That's craziness!
Well, I started backing towards the door when one person asked if Dean had ever told Sam and Bobby that he opened the first seal. 'Yes, of course' was the answer. When? 'Well, he must have done it off-screen because he said, "We made this mess, we'll clean it up." If he hadn't told them about the seal, he would have said "YOU made a mess." ' (Actually given that the writers often seem to let things slide that we should see onscreen, this is almost possible. But no, I don't think Dean's told them about the first seal yet.)
But I definitely backed through that door when another person announced that she'd love to feel sorry for Bobby due to his injury, but just couldn't bring herself to care because Bobby was MEAN to Dean in "Lucifer Rising." Bobby should apologize to Dean. He owes it to him.
And the lapses in logic and sanity started getting larger and larger, and I sprinted through that damned door and retreated to here.