'Trash'
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Me, either. I think of long-term male 'Ffistas as friends who have naughty joke privileges.
Although I appreciate Karl's protectiveness, I honestly didn't see anything offensive in it at all.
God knows, I am a crass chick. And dude, we objectify men here! A lot! Sometimes. Ok, a lot.
::thinks of Dean in a tux::
::objectifies him::
My favorite time to objectify Dean is when he is breaking the windows out of the Impala with that crowbar/tire iron thingy. The t shirt, the sweat, the arms. He is objectified.
I didn't give that comment much brain space but what did cross my mind was, "Nah. Don't."
Which tangentially reminded me of a conversation with male co-workers about some trashy line they'd heard another guy use. I made some offhanded snark like, "Shuh! That would never work on a woman!" They all turned toward me with apologetic looks, "Um. Well. Yeah. Pretty much every time." I despaired for my kind.
OMG I am never going away from my internets again. I missed all the spicy brain talk! Woe!
Wow, I have a lot to think about now. Including, apparently, Dean breaking the Impala's back window. Which is not quite when I objectify, but more when I want to cuddle him and make him tea.
I just didn't want to remain silent as if the above post spoke for me. Nothing more.
Thanks. I do apologize if my joke caused offense. I did consider whether or not to post it, but, like Erin said, I figured I had naughty joke privileges.
Which is not quite when I objectify, but more when I want to cuddle him and make him tea.
And we're back to the tea again!
Seriously. Maybe I'm a Sensitive New Age Gal!
I objectify Dean most when he's fixing the car. Or wearing a tux. Or being compassionate to a little boy who's been traumatized. Or smirking. Or chewing on a pen.
Um.
Or on the phone, or sleeping, or eating, or...
Exactly.
And dude, we objectify men here! A lot! Sometimes. Ok, a lot.
The thing is, as men we don't have millennia of history of people trying to diminish us via objectification. While expectations of providerhood and living up to some manly ideal are their own ball of wax, pretty much all we've had to face of a similar nature are a few decades of being portrayed as hapless overgrown children in commercials and sitcoms, and even that loses some of its sting when we can turn off the TV and return to a real life that's overly biased in our favor. I think objectification issues hit a lot harder when directed toward women, and there's much greater potential for underlying nastiness due to cultural baggage.