I didn't take that away from Sam's look. I thought it was...something. Something reflecting that he had had the comfort this whole time knowing that Dean was alive, and in fact believing that Dean was happier than he had been than when they were together. So that this hug was for Dean, not for Sam.
Having Corin Nemec be a Campbell doesn't help me like them. He's got a smug mug.
My second viewing, my gut reaction of "Sam is a cold-hearted meanie!" changed to viewing Sam as very reserved, with a lot of things roiling under the surface. He seems now, with the hug and everything else, to be holding back. Whether because there's an ocean's depth of wild emotion hidden beneath the calm surface . . . wow, I'm suddenly reminding myself of Mal, or at least how I wrote Mal in that one embarrassing(ly) epic fic --or something else, I don't know. But I'm still seeing love there. And in some scenes, a kind of, I dunno, tired and wise patience? Which I guess is a way to back into the "Sam being mean and humouring Dean by allowing the hug". Like maybe Sam's dealt with his shit and knows Dean has a lot of catching up to do.
I still think it could be numbness from hell. Just because he did not suffer as long as Dean does not mean torture could not break him. In real life people can get permanent mental damage from a few hours of torture. I don't see numbness from days or weeks of torture in hell that included Lucifer attacking him from inside as being implausible. (I love how we take possession by Lucifer and going bodily to hell as inherently plausible. Oh show. )
So I almost posted this earlier but deleted it, but since you all are talking about it.
Jared gives a Sam expression that looks (unintentionally I believe) like a smirk and often it leaves me befuddled as to what he's thinking and often feels inappropriate to the moment.
Regardless, Sam does not wear his feelings out in the open on his face like Dean and I think there's a lot of context we're missing right now (about Sam) and it's damn difficult to interpret what's going on with him.
The Campbells seem to be relatives from hell, and yes, I am including you old man.
I'd chose Lisa and Ben too.
We do only have Grandpa Campbell's word that he got pulled down to the world of the living simultaneously with Sam being pulled up, after all...
Similarly, we only have Grandpa Campbell and cousin's words that they are not among the resurrected. The explanation of why Dean and Sam never heard of them before seems a little facile.
It was interesting to me, and Ryan almost touched on it, that Dean is in the position that Adam was in when he was resurrected, to a large extent, in the "you may be blood, but you're not my family" attitude that Dean seems to be taking with the Campbells.
Noir as an ethos for the season is interesting to me, as is the tagline, of which I was not aware. It is, at the very least, a different spin on parents and children than we've been getting from Show. It's usually "John's boys." Apparently, nsm this year.
Dean is in the position that Adam was in when he was resurrected, to a large extent, in the "you may be blood, but you're not my family" attitude that Dean seems to be taking with the Campbells
I was struck by how alien it had to feel for him when Samuel expected him to self-identify as a Campbell ("that's what Campbells do") rather than as a Winchester.