Anya: It's lovely! I wish it was mine! Oh like you weren't all thinking the same thing. Giles: I'm fairly certain I wasn't.

'The Killer In Me'


Natter 62: The 62nd Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Jan 06, 2009 9:21:30 am PST #9591 of 10002
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

"The salient fact of an adolescent girl's existence is her need for asecret emotional life—one that she slips into during her sulks and silences, during her endless hours alone in her room, or even just when she's gazing out the classroom window while all of Modern European History, or the niceties of the passé composé, sluice past her. This means that she is a creature designed for reading in a way no boy or man, or even grown woman, could ever be so exactly designed, because she is a creature whose most elemental psychological needs—to be undisturbed while she works out the big questions of her life, to be hidden from view while still in plain sight, to enter profoundly into the emotional lives of others—are met precisely by the act of reading."

The utter generalization of this paragraph made my head explode the first time because I'm sorry, not all readers are built alike and certainly, not all adolescent female readers are built alike.

Not to mention that it completely ignores adolescent boys. "Adolescent boys? THEY don't read! In fact, they probably don't even know HOW to read! They spend all their time looking for their dads' stash of girlie mags, jerking off, and playing whatever the newest violent video game is. Furthermore, adolescent boys have NO need of an 'inner world,' as that would make them sissies who will probably turn out gay, or at the very least, cross-dressers."

I mean, *seriously.* I get that all cultures have inherent gender stereotypes, but is it too much to ask someone to *think,* even a tiny bit, before they write such widely disseminated claptrap?

t /gender bitch


Laura - Jan 06, 2009 9:31:26 am PST #9592 of 10002
Our wings are not tired.

I mean, *seriously.* I get that all cultures have inherent gender stereotypes, but is it too much to ask someone to *think,* even a tiny bit, before they write such widely disseminated claptrap?

My adolescent girl and boy experiences has proved to me that they are unique, each and every one. And yes, the girl paragraph above does apply to many I have met, and the boy example from Teppy sure sounds like a lot of the boys I see daily. But it isn't the whole picture for any of them.


msbelle - Jan 06, 2009 9:42:34 am PST #9593 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

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Polgara - Jan 06, 2009 9:49:12 am PST #9594 of 10002
Karma is a cat, sleeping in my lap cuz it loves me. ~TS

LJ

I used LJarchive this morning and it was easy and quick. And now I can search my entries--added bonus!


amych - Jan 06, 2009 9:54:17 am PST #9595 of 10002
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Will LJ still be handling the dismissive ridiculing of customer concerns from its Moscow headquarters?

Of course! That's their core service!


javachik - Jan 06, 2009 9:58:47 am PST #9596 of 10002
Our wings are not tired.

Thanks for the link, Polgara.


msbelle - Jan 06, 2009 10:09:31 am PST #9597 of 10002
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

does LJArchive work for mac?


Laura - Jan 06, 2009 10:14:20 am PST #9598 of 10002
Our wings are not tired.

I used ljArchive too. Easy peasy and nice to have it all local.


DavidS - Jan 06, 2009 10:22:52 am PST #9599 of 10002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

They spend all their time looking for their dads' stash of girlie mags, jerking off, and playing whatever the newest violent video game is.

::nods nods...oh wait! this is an argument against::


Fred Pete - Jan 06, 2009 10:26:01 am PST #9600 of 10002
Ann, that's a ferret.

They spend all their time looking for their dads' stash of girlie mags, jerking off

Even for an adolescent male, this activity can only use up so much time a day. At least once the stash has been found.