A vague disclaimer is nobody's friend.

Willow ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 62: The 62nd Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


billytea - Dec 22, 2008 6:34:57 pm PST #7573 of 10002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

For what it's worth, none of the weddings I have officiated have ever included either 'obey' or 'death.' Even the most traditional couples don't ask for it.

My wedding could have included "we've replaced his wedding vows with Folger's Crystals, let's see if he notices" for all I know, it all being in Mandarin.


Cass - Dec 22, 2008 6:39:04 pm PST #7574 of 10002
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

I hate buying music and then realizing I already owned it. It's happened ... well more than twice. Clearly *I* am the fool in that situation.

My wedding could have included "we've replaced his wedding vows with Folger's Crystals, let's see if he notices" for all I know, it all being in Mandarin.

Folger's = twu luv?


billytea - Dec 22, 2008 6:40:45 pm PST #7575 of 10002
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I hate buying music and then realizing I already owned it. It's happened ... well more than twice. Clearly *I* am the fool in that situation.

I've done that with board games. In my defence, while waiting for the first one to arrive.


§ ita § - Dec 22, 2008 6:45:48 pm PST #7576 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

In my defence, while waiting for the first one to arrive.

That's worse, not better.

Bonny--called it in one. The movie is giving me great squick, though. I have old-friend-kissing issues, and breaking-the-vows issues.


beth b - Dec 22, 2008 6:46:08 pm PST #7577 of 10002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I believe ours included 'til death. But I don't remember a lot of it -- the whole getting married in vegas on our way to CA didn't really lead to lots of choices - or even interest in the details.

I didn't get married until I actually already felt married. for me -- that means life partner - -and the point of getting legally married was to make sure the State and everyone else recognized it.


beekaytee - Dec 22, 2008 6:59:52 pm PST #7578 of 10002
Compassionately intolerant

Score!

While I don't have the old-friend squick, I'm with you on the breaking the vows thing. But there are other things I just love about that movie. Milos Foreman chief among them. And Ann Bancroft and the electronics store guy and Cuddy! I have a great fondness for it.


Shir - Dec 22, 2008 7:12:54 pm PST #7579 of 10002
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Happy birthday, Strega!

I believe ours included 'til death

I read it "I believe ours included death". Hi, morning!


bon bon - Dec 22, 2008 7:13:56 pm PST #7580 of 10002
It's five thousand for kissing, ten thousand for snuggling... End of list.

My wedding could have included "we've replaced his wedding vows with Folger's Crystals, let's see if he notices" for all I know, it all being in Mandarin.

Fuck if I know what was in my wedding vows, and it was two months ago and in English.


Shir - Dec 22, 2008 7:17:13 pm PST #7581 of 10002
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Ha. I love my denial.

I forgot mornings included work, and now I'm a bit resentful about it messing with my internet fun.


§ ita § - Dec 22, 2008 7:17:27 pm PST #7582 of 10002
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

bon totally pledged to obey bob, pass it on.

bonny, it was a sweet movie, the bits I could watch. Funny that I think the hottest Michael Vartan looked was as the dirty fallen priest on Alias, but it's not like we had to watch a good guy wrestle with his faith. Dirty priests have already done the dirty work. It's part of their charm.