My whole life, I've never loved anything else.

Oz ,'Him'


Natter 62: The 62nd Natter  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


brenda m - Dec 06, 2008 6:02:15 am PST #4618 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I lock my doors at home but at my dad's we usually only lock at night or if we're leaving. Just how I grew up I guess. My upstairs neighbor leaves her interior door unlocked all the time - I know because she's asked to come through my place a few times when she's forgotten her keys. (Or actually, the first time I realized was taking care of her cat over the holidays last year, but at the time I thought that was just because it was last minute and she had several people doing it over the three weeks she was gone so I thought it was just an emergency situation.)


Ginger - Dec 06, 2008 6:30:46 am PST #4619 of 10002
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

I hope you're feeling better this morning, tommy.

I always lock, unless I'm actually in the yard, but I was married to a cop for 12 years.


brenda m - Dec 06, 2008 7:31:40 am PST #4620 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I'm going through my spending trends info for the past year on Mint.com and getting sick to my stomach.

Also I burnt the fuck out of my tongue on my coffee this morning.

OTOH, I've got homemade bread in the works to go in the oven shortly. Yay?


DavidS - Dec 06, 2008 7:59:46 am PST #4621 of 10002
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

I'm going through my spending trends info for the past year on Mint.com and getting sick to my stomach.

Did you waste all your money on Nintendo and Orange Julius?


Jessica - Dec 06, 2008 8:18:48 am PST #4622 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

My door locks automatically when I close it, and so do both outside doors to my building. I usually lock the deadbolt at night, even if the chances of someone robbing the apartment furthest from the entrance and up 4 flights of stairs are slim to none.


brenda m - Dec 06, 2008 8:21:44 am PST #4623 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Did you waste all your money on Nintendo and Orange Julius?

Heh. Might as well have. Ugh. Need to make some changes in how I operate, I think.


Typo Boy - Dec 06, 2008 8:25:56 am PST #4624 of 10002
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

I grew up in LA. The idea of not locking a house door appalls me. For that matter I'm pretty much incapable of leaving a car door unlocked either. My late father when was young owned a small house in East LA in the 40s that he always left unlocked. Special circumstances though. He kept it open 24 hours so friends could crash there, and it was never empty. Anyone who tried to take advantage of the open door for nefarious purposes would have run into a houseful of tough guys with knives.


Jessica - Dec 06, 2008 8:29:01 am PST #4625 of 10002
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Attention hivemind!

I just bought a slow cooker at Target (on sale for $15!) What are your favorite slow cooker recipes?


beth b - Dec 06, 2008 8:32:08 am PST #4626 of 10002
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Brenda -- what made you try mint.com? it loos good and useful, but I am trying to figure out how safe it is.


brenda m - Dec 06, 2008 8:43:03 am PST #4627 of 10002
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Hmm. I've been using it about a year and a half, and I remember spending a fair amount of time scouring the internets to make sure it was up and up before I did it, but I can't recall the details. I really like it, despite how painful it can occasionally be.

I've never had a hint of anything amiss, and it's really nice to be able to see snapshots of everything all at once. I don't make good use of the budgeting tools, which, obviously, I should look into, but being able to track spending across categories is really nifty. And they'll alert you for things like excess spending when a certain category is out of whack and, probably most helpful, notify you a few days in advance whenever payments are due. With the way the credit card companies have started randomly switching up due dates to rack up fees, that's a godsend.

The one account I had on there that I took off was my 401k - I don't believe in monitoring that one so closely, and that was even before the current troubles.