Also, BT, I am so, so sorry for your nephew and your family and sincerely hope for the best outcome. Thinking of you.
Shir, am thinking good thoughts for your sister.
Damn, world, why can everyone just CHILL and get the fuck along? Any higher power doesn't want all this bullshit and anger and hate and pain.
I swear, if someone zapped me and made me a god, I would be super-pissed, cause what a hard job, but I have some very specific ideas about some things I would do. And Thunderdome for some would be one.
billytea, sending out the ma~~~~
I think we have some weird ideas about addiction. I understand the dangers. But there is a huge difference about a physical addiction that eases a physical problem -- which improves a life and an addiction that wrecks lives.
and how about my friend L. her father killed himself, her mom is deppressed , but won't admit it and her sister sleeps about 20 out of 24 hours. L recognized the family problem and will be on prozac for the rest of her life.
and I take 7 drugs a day -- to keep me physical healthy. Long enough without some of them , I would have some serious health problems , and die much sooner than planned.
When I was in school -- addiction was defined as using a drug/ drinking alcohol with a results that caused a problem in your life. I like this definition because it has nothing to do with frequency, but more to do with results.
This means that if ita has to go to the ER every few 3 or 4 days ( i know you try for only once a week) to be a functioning productive member of society -- it is good. She mayh be dependent, but an addict is the wrong word. Because that would make my friend L, my DH , my sisters, my parents, and me all addicts too.
~ma to your family billytea.
sending pain free ~ma and dealing with smarter docters ~ma to ita.
billytea, you and your family are in my thoughts. Much ~ma for your nephew's recovery.
thanks
and on a different note -- robot army
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She mayh be dependent, but an addict is the wrong word.
I like this distinction. It's like something a psychiatrist told me about OCD--if it doesn't negatively impact your life, it's just a compulsion. When it starts dragging things down, it's OCD.
BT, thinking healing thoughts towards your family.
OMG, it's raining like a mad thing in Tallahassee. This is going to make the Florida/FSU game, erm... interesting.
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[I am] short, stark, and mansome.
You should contact me if you are a skinny woman. If your words are a meaningful progression of concepts rather than a series of vocalizations induced by your spinal cord for the purpose of complementing my tone of voice. If you’ve seen the meatbot, the walking automaton, the pod-people, the dense, glazy-eyed substrate through which living organisms such as myself must escape to reach air and sunlight. If you’ve realized that if speech is to be regarded as a cognitive function, technically they aren’t speaking, and you don’t have to listen.
What a wanker. And if possible, this one is even more of a wanker:
I am rational, integrated, and efficacious. So far, I’ve never met a person who lives up to the standard I hold for myself (except online).
I take my relationships seriously. I am simply not attracted to many of the women in this world. I do not “hook-up” with girls. I only kiss those who deserve, and so far I have only encountered one who did. I would love to find someone I can learn something from; someone who challenges me to think; someone I can feel like I’ve won, rather than lowered myself to.
This one is possible as wankerous, but we need more details:
My individualism takes precedence at all costs, if not at all times.
And this sounds like parody:
I love intelligent, sassy girls, particularly those working in consulting or investment banking (but other fields are great too). Really, nothing is hotter than an accomplished girl in a suit, as long as she is willing to settle down and have my children. I want a girl who will support my ambitions against the naysayers in society.
