Or if I just need to frog march him somewhere, I grab a chunk of his backfat and twist it.
Now this my dad did, but with armfat instead. He also (even when I wasn't in trouble, just out of habit) would take my arm just above the elbow to walk me places. Not quite frog marching, but felt like it a bit.
I was spanked only twice as a child, and I remember both very clearly, so they did what they were supposed to do--make an impression.
I did spank a child I was babysitting once, after repeated warnings to him, and I told the parents (both of whom I knew very well and I was very familiar with their parenting styles, otherwise I would never have done it no matter how much the kid provoked me) as soon as they came home that night. They both backed me up in my decision to do so.
In all the years I babysat since then, it never even crossed my mind to spank a child.
I only got spanked once (that I recall) as well. I secretly crossed the street alone to go to the park. Scared my mom out of her mind. Justifiable spanking.
I got spanked at least three or four times (maybe more times that I've forgotten). The one time that sticks in my mind was when I turned the thermostat up to 95 degrees. My dad told us that could burn the house down.
Dunno - maybe that was true. That was a 110 year old house when we finally tore it down....
That was a 110 year old house when we finally tore it down....
Seems like an awful waste of manpower when all you had to do was crank the heat.
Hold up! Michael Jackson is 50?!? Crap. That's really shocking to me for some reason. Holy cow.
I was spanked as a child. I can't say that it taught me to hit, but I can see the connection. And I'm sure that some children would make that connection at a young age, I just know that I didn't.
I was spanked as a child and it taught me that bigger people can do what they want to you, but that doesn't make them right. Think in terms of correcting my behavior it was a wash, too - I got more stubborn and rebellious.
That said, I have smacked Casper on the butt in anger. Not calculatedly, though. Is that better, or worse?
it taught me that bigger people can do what they want to you, but that doesn't make them right.
I got that from the phrase, "because I said so" and "because I'm the mom, that's why." Heh.