{{{Kristin}}}
GAH! Parents is soooo weird. (And I say that with the full realization that I may well drive my own kids equally nuts one day.)
Still-- I can't believe he thought withholding something like that from you was a GOOD idea. Oy.
ETA: {{{Erin}}}
Oh sweetie- argh. What a thing to have to hear. I mean, as far as I know so far for me, it's an "option" but probably one to consider fairly seriously, so I feel ya right back.