These girls have the most beautiful dresses. And so do I -- how about that?

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


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Laga - Jan 03, 2009 3:49:37 pm PST #6763 of 10000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I like it, but $40 seems like a lot for a skirt that doesn't have a hem.


Laga - Jan 03, 2009 3:51:59 pm PST #6764 of 10000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

dear asshat customer dude: Don't call up and say you owe us an apology and then go on to say it's our fault you were upset. You were screaming obscenities at a pregnant woman. "I'm sorry your policies made me mad" is not an apology. You're lucky I wasn't here last night or you'd have been arrested.


Laura - Jan 03, 2009 3:55:45 pm PST #6765 of 10000
Our wings are not tired.

I'm with Laga on the skirt. Seems pricey, but the hand wash care instructions would keep me away because hand washing doesn't happen in my life. The flowers probably require that.


Cashmere - Jan 03, 2009 4:01:39 pm PST #6766 of 10000
Now tagless for your comfort.

I know the woman who makes the skirts but I was thinking it was pretty expensive. But then, I've never had hand made clothes before. Her stuff is extremely well made, though--she wears her own stuff and it holds up.

I'm considering wearing more skirts and thought this might be a good start. I could just call her and ask her to make something specifically for me, if I'm going to spend that much.


beth b - Jan 03, 2009 4:03:21 pm PST #6767 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

most of my hand wash stuff goes through the shortest gentle cycle on my washer


Atropa - Jan 03, 2009 4:04:32 pm PST #6768 of 10000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

An article about a new type of bra: [link] - the emphasis is on comfort rather than uplift.

The emphasis is apparently on continuing back and shoulder problems, because the main problem with bras (including that one, from what I can see) is that all the weight of the breasts is suspended from the shoulders. The picture with the article shows that the "x" design of the straps is still sitting way too high up - it's sitting where badly-fitting bra bands always sit.

So she took a badly-fitting bra design AND made it less supportive. I am unimpressed. Also, a bra that is properly fitted IS comfortable. Not as comfortable as a custom-fitted overbust corset, but still more comfortable than that new type of bra.

(Yes. I Have Views about undergarments.)


beth b - Jan 03, 2009 4:07:41 pm PST #6769 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Also, a bra that is properly fitted IS comfortable.

I don't buy bras without a fitting -- and never have I been 8+ hours comfortable in a bra.


Atropa - Jan 03, 2009 4:08:05 pm PST #6770 of 10000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Cashmere, it's a cute enough skirt, but I wouldn't consider it $40 of cute. Also, the flowers look like they were made by taking apart regular silk flowers from the craft store, layering a couple of petal sections, and then sewing a glass button in the center. So, clever idea, but not executed brilliantly or anything.


Cashmere - Jan 03, 2009 4:12:23 pm PST #6771 of 10000
Now tagless for your comfort.

I'll bet she can start me off with a decent circle skirt with a recycled t-shirt waist. My problem with skirts (and pants for that matter) is the fact that I have a 40 inch waist and 42 inch hips. Stuff slides right off me, if I get it to fit my waist.

With my 45 inch bust, I'm like a pumpkin on a pair of decently shaped legs.


brenda m - Jan 03, 2009 4:27:44 pm PST #6772 of 10000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I've never had big issues with bra comfort, frankly. I mean, occasionally when I've worn them into dust and the wires start poking out or all the elastic is gone, or if I've had a big weight gain so they no longer fit. But my random everyday bras - and I buy a big range of quality and cost - has never been a big source of discomfort.

The $90 professionally fitted Nordie's jobs look a lot better, so I'm trying to make that more my norm anyway, but historically it's not been a big deal for me.

[I should add that I'm in the D-DD range, for what difference that makes.]