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Atropa - Jan 03, 2009 4:04:32 pm PST #6768 of 10000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

An article about a new type of bra: [link] - the emphasis is on comfort rather than uplift.

The emphasis is apparently on continuing back and shoulder problems, because the main problem with bras (including that one, from what I can see) is that all the weight of the breasts is suspended from the shoulders. The picture with the article shows that the "x" design of the straps is still sitting way too high up - it's sitting where badly-fitting bra bands always sit.

So she took a badly-fitting bra design AND made it less supportive. I am unimpressed. Also, a bra that is properly fitted IS comfortable. Not as comfortable as a custom-fitted overbust corset, but still more comfortable than that new type of bra.

(Yes. I Have Views about undergarments.)


beth b - Jan 03, 2009 4:07:41 pm PST #6769 of 10000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Also, a bra that is properly fitted IS comfortable.

I don't buy bras without a fitting -- and never have I been 8+ hours comfortable in a bra.


Atropa - Jan 03, 2009 4:08:05 pm PST #6770 of 10000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Cashmere, it's a cute enough skirt, but I wouldn't consider it $40 of cute. Also, the flowers look like they were made by taking apart regular silk flowers from the craft store, layering a couple of petal sections, and then sewing a glass button in the center. So, clever idea, but not executed brilliantly or anything.


Cashmere - Jan 03, 2009 4:12:23 pm PST #6771 of 10000
Now tagless for your comfort.

I'll bet she can start me off with a decent circle skirt with a recycled t-shirt waist. My problem with skirts (and pants for that matter) is the fact that I have a 40 inch waist and 42 inch hips. Stuff slides right off me, if I get it to fit my waist.

With my 45 inch bust, I'm like a pumpkin on a pair of decently shaped legs.


brenda m - Jan 03, 2009 4:27:44 pm PST #6772 of 10000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I've never had big issues with bra comfort, frankly. I mean, occasionally when I've worn them into dust and the wires start poking out or all the elastic is gone, or if I've had a big weight gain so they no longer fit. But my random everyday bras - and I buy a big range of quality and cost - has never been a big source of discomfort.

The $90 professionally fitted Nordie's jobs look a lot better, so I'm trying to make that more my norm anyway, but historically it's not been a big deal for me.

[I should add that I'm in the D-DD range, for what difference that makes.]


JenP - Jan 03, 2009 4:35:46 pm PST #6773 of 10000

I mean, if her bra was not letting her breathe properly, then it was not sized right. I have found several comfortable underwire bras that look great, and I love them. I also have a few wireless that are OK, too. Not that big of an issue for me, for which I am thankful.


askye - Jan 03, 2009 4:40:40 pm PST #6774 of 10000
Thrive to spite them

I stick with Lane Bryant bras because I can get them to fit. Although I did move up to a D cup but no matter what they fit me I'm never the chest size. The lady at lane Bryant didn't think it was true, but I tried on the bra size she suggested and it was too big in the chest.

And I have to have a bra with some kind of light padding because other wise, well, my nipples show through. Which means I can't wear the pretty balconette bras at Lane Bryant.


Atropa - Jan 03, 2009 4:41:13 pm PST #6775 of 10000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I mean, if her bra was not letting her breathe properly, then it was not sized right.

Exactly. And I still hold that the innovative "x" shaped straps were sitting waaaaay too high.

(It is a, ahem, big issue for me, since I wear a 34G bra.)


Amy - Jan 03, 2009 4:59:46 pm PST #6776 of 10000
Because books.

And I still hold that the innovative "x" shaped straps were sitting waaaaay too high.

That's what it looked like to me, too. And honestly, I know she said the fit was supposed to be more natural, but even the mannequin looked saggy. If I wanted to look like that, I'd skip the bra, frankly.


JenP - Jan 03, 2009 5:03:46 pm PST #6777 of 10000

And I still hold that the innovative "x" shaped straps were sitting waaaaay too high.

Oh, yeah.