Wow, you've really mastered the power of positive giving-up.

Cordelia ,'End of Days'


Spike's Bitches 43: Who am I kidding? I love to brag.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


vw bug - Dec 18, 2008 3:11:58 am PST #4898 of 10000
Mostly lurking...

I tend to shy away from discussions on privilege--ever since a very tense class in my tutoring seminar on the issue. I've done a bit of writing on it, though...mostly from the perspective of experiencing an easier time getting public assistance because I'm white and well-spoken. It bothers me tremendously and makes me want to advocate for those who don't have those qualities (I'm not sure what else to call them; that may not be the best word).

Relatedly, the Boston hospital that treats the highest number of low-income residents is having to make major cuts, including 30% of their translators. This makes me so very, very sad.

Unrelatedly, I just really fucked up something for school. And the thing is, it's entirely my fault. I worded something VERY badly. Ugh.


Emily - Dec 18, 2008 4:02:57 am PST #4899 of 10000
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

It's what made me think that her list of privileges were not so much "white" as "dominant culture."

Totally true. Also, I like the one about "If I want to, I can find a publisher for this." Nuh? That's a particular brand of privilege right there! Anyway, this whole conversation was yesterday and I don't want to rehash it. So I will... stop typing about it already!

Okay, two more days until vacation. Deep breaths and don't blow up at the students! vw, I can't access lj at school, so I'm afraid it'll have to wait until I get home.


Emily - Dec 18, 2008 4:19:28 am PST #4900 of 10000
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

Hey, can anyone recommend a good resource (or explanation) to explain why we as a country get involved in humanitarian missions, as opposed to only responding when our national security is directly threatened?

Gosh, having conservative students is fun. (Actually, it is fun. It's just also frustrating.)


vw bug - Dec 18, 2008 4:44:37 am PST #4901 of 10000
Mostly lurking...

How do I already need a nap?


Ginger - Dec 18, 2008 4:57:30 am PST #4902 of 10000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Didn't need to be said twice.

Well, it was a second wind.


Vortex - Dec 18, 2008 5:08:01 am PST #4903 of 10000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

The bra saga continues. Got the new brown bras yesterday aaaannd . . . they don't fit. The band is too tight and the cups gap wierdly. Plus, they're padded. I hate that. And I asked specifically about the padding and was told that it was only on the sides. Now, the question is, go buy the OTB in black that's $60, or try to find alternative bras tonight? I leave tomorrow.


Ginger - Dec 18, 2008 5:26:39 am PST #4904 of 10000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Go to the place with the OTB, see if they have any alternative bras and, if not, grit your teeth and pay the 60 bucks?


Vortex - Dec 18, 2008 5:29:56 am PST #4905 of 10000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Go to the place with the OTB, see if they have any alternative bras and, if not, grit your teeth and pay the 60 bucks?

It's Nordstrom, all of the bras will be in that range. If it was the brown one, I wouldn't blink.


Toddson - Dec 18, 2008 5:40:43 am PST #4906 of 10000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

vw, your comment about CBD asking for a playdate with Toto reminded me of a line in a Bujold book, about someone being "one of those feral types that leave you asking ' am I crazy? am *I* crazy?' ". It might be unconscious, but it sounds like he's playing games with your brain (and a playdate with your brain is so not a good thing).

Vortex, perhaps you need to bring the boobs of war (cf your tagline) to the place that sent you the bad bras.


lisah - Dec 18, 2008 5:46:56 am PST #4907 of 10000
Punishingly Intricate

It's Nordstrom, all of the bras will be in that range. If it was the brown one, I wouldn't blink.

There will occasionally be ones on sale there. I'm wearing a GORGIE Wacoal one that I got for 1/2 price there earlier this year. But, yeah, I'm pretty much resigned to paying at least $60 for bras that work for me.