"I was JUST KIDDING! Geez, can't you TAKE A JOKE???"
"No. And I also don't like pathetic little ploys to get out of taking responsibility for one's own words."
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
"I was JUST KIDDING! Geez, can't you TAKE A JOKE???"
"No. And I also don't like pathetic little ploys to get out of taking responsibility for one's own words."
My favorite justification is, "Well, I make fun of everybody, no matter their race, ethnicity, heritage, whatever. People are people and I make fun of them all."
rolls eyes forver.
EMPRESS!!!!!
t tacklehugs
http://mmcisaac.faculty.asu.edu/emc598ge/Unpacking.html
Here's the Peggy McIntosh article about white privilege. It wasn't until I'd read that* that I felt on firmer ground responding to the inevitable "Well, jokes about white people don't bother ME" argument. As for the whole "people within the group telling the joke" thing, that's another battle in the same war.
I've had to try to explain this to teenage boys a LOT. At least grown women are likely to be able to consider the idea of privilege, whereas to these boys the very words "white privilege" are like a dog whistle -- they can see that something's happening but are totally unable to hear a sound.
(*Read and, actually, did a little activity where we got to stand in a line according to our degree of privilege, which I've gotten to do TWICE now -- NOT an ideal teaching tool, in case you're wondering. But writing a paper on some other form of privilege was kind of interesting. I wrote one on female privilege, and another on ability privilege.)
Okay, now I'm just babbling to keep from leaving.
"No. And I also don't like pathetic little ploys to get out of taking responsibility for one's own words."
PERFECT. Now, if only I can retrieve that next time I need it.
Urgh. I've got the Jensen Ackles real bad.
YAY. Thank you for links.
Urgh. I've got the Jensen Ackles real bad.
Is the treatment a cream or a suppository?
Is the treatment a cream or a suppository?
Midol.
Urgh. I've got the Jensen Ackles real bad.
So you also had a momentary flash of Sparky running off to celebrate the holidays with Dean Winchester? No, just me?