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Spike's Bitches 43: Who am I kidding? I love to brag.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Glamcookie - Dec 10, 2008 6:37:27 am PST #3921 of 10000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister

Hey, has anyone talked to Teppy lately? I realized that I haven't seen her on here in a while and knew she was having a rough time. If you're out there, hi Tep!


Fay - Dec 10, 2008 6:37:31 am PST #3922 of 10000
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

Congrats, Sparky!

Total tangent:

t possibly offensive

What exactly is meant by 'Hispanic', or 'Latino'? I mean, my understanding is that these words are interchangeable, and my assumption (and I sincerely apologise if this is coming across as offensive, because I'm not trying to be disingenuous here - this just isn't a UK thing) is that it's not so much an ethnic grouping as it is a cultural (linguistic/religious) grouping? Only that seems not to quite be the case. Could someone explain this to me? Does it boil down to biracial? I know that we've got a number of Buffistas of Hispanic extraction - can someone clarify this for me?

t /possibly offensive


brenda m - Dec 10, 2008 6:38:59 am PST #3923 of 10000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

She was taking a bit of a break, but yeah, it's been a while since I've seen her here or lj.


vw bug - Dec 10, 2008 6:40:25 am PST #3924 of 10000
Mostly lurking...

She responded to a post in my LJ this morning.

Fay, Hispanic is an ethnicity, not race. But, I'm going to leave more information up to people who actually know something about this.


Fay - Dec 10, 2008 6:45:41 am PST #3925 of 10000
"Fuck Western ideologically-motivated gender identification!" Sulu gasped, and came.

You see, that still doesn't help me, vw. What do you mean by the words race and ethnicity?


Fred Pete - Dec 10, 2008 6:47:30 am PST #3926 of 10000
Ann, that's a ferret.

All I can add, Fay, is that the term covers a lot of ground. "Hispanic" includes both Mexicans and Peruvians, but the cultures are very different. Kind of like how "European" includes both Spaniards and Finns.


Emily - Dec 10, 2008 6:55:00 am PST #3927 of 10000
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

I don't know much about this site, but it has a pretty clear explanation which seems to jibe with my limited understanding of the issue:

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Edited because the board stole my jibe and transformed it into a jib. No way did I type "seems to jib"!


Hil R. - Dec 10, 2008 6:55:23 am PST #3928 of 10000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I've seen it used for pretty much anyone who comes to the US from Spanish-speaking countries (other than Spain), and their descendants, and for people from the Southwest whose families have been in the US for generations and are a mix of Native American and the Spanish settlers. (And people in the second group I know tend to get irritated when people ask them questions like "When did your family come to the US?" -- the answer is, "My family didn't come to the US, the US came to us.")


d - Dec 10, 2008 7:00:01 am PST #3929 of 10000
It's nice to see some brave pretenders trying to make it interesting.

Babyfras!!! Congratulations, Sparky (and DH).


Emily - Dec 10, 2008 7:01:23 am PST #3930 of 10000
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

We don't have any Dutch or, uh, Netherlandish Buffistas, do we? (I have some vague idea that Dutch is offensive to some people, but maybe I'm making that up.) I'll be at the Amsterdam airport for 8 hours on Christmas. Yay!