after me saying multiple times that I'd be there with bells on, now that it's time, I can't!
In a similar theme, I can't come to Denver. I'm getting braces, and getting work done on my house, and so my budget for the year is about shot. I hate having to choose between "necessary" and "fun".
So sorry you can't make it!
And, in the fun v. necessary - I was talking to a coworker the other day and it came up about how "adult" books, movies, etc., never go into having to pay bills rather than have fun, or having to clean rather than go out and party every night.
Pretty damn rare in any movie. I thought one of the great movies on this subject (though not an "adult" movie in xx sense) was "1000 clowns". 1965 Jason Robarbs
(though not an "adult" movie in xx sense)
I didn't realize until I read your post, Typo Boy, that Toddson's post wasn't about porn.
I didn't realize until I read your post, Typo Boy, that Toddson's post wasn't about porn.
Hah! I HATE when in porn, they don't show people paying bills, damnit!
...there's gotta be a kink for that. Though I think I'd only be turned on if it were someone paying MY bills...
Well, the point was they call things "adult" (movies, books) but the people never do adult things (like paying bills or dealing with home repairs - in a realistic way - or having to get up and go to work every day or commute on public transit).
1000 Clowns starts out with the "free spirit non-conformist sticking it to the man" cliche. Except that it looks at it critically and makes the case for being grown up and sucking it up for the sake of your family. Without (IMO) being preachy. And quite entertaining ultimately.
They do do adult things like drink and smoke and have sex, though. If paying bills were interesting or character illuminating, they'd do that too.
I've seen plenty of movies where it's a plot point that someone doesn't do things like pay their bills (usually a Manic Pixie Girl who's far too free-spirited to be burdened with mundane things like paying rent).
Or House of Sand and Fog where the moral is that if you don't check your mail, you will probably DIE.