Uh, are we gonna fight, or is there just gonna be a monster sarcasm rally?

Stoner Vamp ,'Lessons'


F2F5: I forget that everyone isn't us

Plan what to do, what to wear (you can never go wrong with a corset), and get ready for the next BuffistaCon.


brenda m - May 12, 2024 4:12:41 pm PDT #12571 of 12685
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh, hang on, I might fit back into my corset again.

(As it is, I just tried on a shit ton of old dresses in search of something for Saturday that could be fairly described as a frock. I unexpectedly found plenty of things I’d be excited to wear. And still went out and bought a bunch of new shit. I may need to invest in a steamer trunk. Which at least would be location-appropriate so there’s that.)


Steph L. - May 13, 2024 7:54:17 am PDT #12572 of 12685
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

I'm annoyed because a dress I ordered 4 weeks ago from eShakti has still not been shipped. (In their defense, the confirmation email does say "Your order is estimated to be delivered in approximately 2-4 weeks," so they're not technically late.) I bought it mostly for our niece's wedding next weekend, but I wanted to wear it to the memorial, too. I have plenty of other dresses, though, so I have backup options.


-t - May 13, 2024 9:21:11 am PDT #12573 of 12685
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I ordered two dresses off of eShakti 7 weeks ago thinking they would be good for the memorial. The app still says "delivery before April 15" for the order but the items are still in "Fabric and kit creation" so I don't expect them any time soon. I did assume 2-4 weeks was optimistic but I thought 8 weeks might not be too much to hope for...


Steph L. - May 13, 2024 9:27:02 am PDT #12574 of 12685
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

Yikes, I'm going to guess that if yours hasn't been delivered by 7 weeks, my 4-week-old order isn't even going to make it in time for our niece's wedding. Dang.


-t - May 13, 2024 9:36:45 am PDT #12575 of 12685
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

It still might! But it might not.


Steph L. - May 13, 2024 9:38:17 am PDT #12576 of 12685
the hardest to learn / was the least complicated

It's a shame, because it's an awesome dress: [link]


-t - May 13, 2024 9:54:58 am PDT #12577 of 12685
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Ooh, very pretty! You'll have to find an occasion to wear it to when it eventually shows up, for sure.


brenda m - May 13, 2024 8:46:29 pm PDT #12578 of 12685
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oh I love it.


Vortex - May 13, 2024 10:35:25 pm PDT #12579 of 12685
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

I'm annoyed because a dress I ordered 4 weeks ago from eShakti has still not been shipped.

I ordered a dress from them in February that is not here yet. I sent an inquiry and they were like "it's coming!" Yeah, right.

Is anyone coordinating who is staying where? I meant to try to put something together, but I've had crush of work and found out last week that the business agreed to an SLA on responding to contract drafts (that I said NO to), so I've got to get those off of my desk before I leave.


juliana - May 14, 2024 8:59:47 am PDT #12580 of 12685
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

I can put something together, if folks can email me. ( e DOT juliana AT gmail).

Also, for getting around SF, I highly recommend using the Flywheel app instead of using any rideshare services. Flywheel is Uber for taxis, basically, but the taxi drivers are much more knowledgeable about the City & there's no surge pricing. If you're planning to use public transit, Clipper & MuniMobile are the apps for tracking & paying for the transit (Clipper works all around the Bay, so you can use it for BART (our light rail). MuniMobile is for in SF only).