Random online shopping site o' the day: punkrockdogg.com

Tees, collars, tags and toys for Deviant Dogs

eta: I think my fave is the picture of the cute doggy, with a t-shirt with a nice pretty font that says, "Fuck Off!"

I think I'm gonna have to construct a Loki-only feeding box. Mister Kitty has scary radar for finding the new food...

Looks like my dad won't retire after this year. The dean is lobbying him to run a science initiative thingie for at least a couple more years. No teaching responsibilities.

Given I have no idea what the fuck my dad will do in retirement, and am worried about him in that case, this is a good thing.

HOW DID I END UP WITH 3 CATS???!

hahahahahah.... now is the beginning of the end, sara.

BTW, have you gotten tickets for thanksgiving yet?

Hey, Kat, want a kitty? I know some people with spares... I can't believe how much accommodating a third is such a PAIN IN THE ASS. Good thing he's cute and MK seems tolerant of him. I just wish Devi would chill. I miss my girl.

No, I have not. I need to do that. Soon. Kinda forgot it was creeping up already. Also need to reserve MK's boarding. Oy.

eta: holy crap, I think I can manage it for less than what I paid to B'ham. I love southwest's fare structures.

just that it was the likely outcome and therefore a change in retirement plan was necessary

Eh, I can see feeling that way. I mean, my dad's family had to do something similar with his parents' farm, based on various inheritance taxes for family farms that got changed over the years from Democrat to Republican administrations (my grandmother died under Clinton, but there were things where if they held onto the farm for several years, they could avoid some of the taxes, because it was a family farm. But then under the Repubs a few years later, they could do some other stuff because policies changed)

their collective belief as businesspeople is that he needs to make a new plan because it seems increasingly likely that Obama will be the next President and the subsequent increase in capital gains taxes will make outright sale of the business impractical for my dad.

I'm not seeing it. The current 15% rate is effective through the end of 2010. It is scheduled to rise to 20% regardless of who is elected. I'm not sure that a change before that (if even possible) would pass because I doubt that anyone wants to discourage investing right now.

HOW DID I END UP WITH 3 CATS???!

I say the same thing, though I do love the baby (Casper). He's so sweet and adorable! Still, 3 friggin' cats!

Alas, again in a skipping-lots-ignoring-ongoing-conversations-and-poking-my-head-for-a-short-time manner, but still, it's that time of year again, and, yeah, still in a risk of sounding a bit strange:

On Wednesday evening (as most of you clever people probably already know) starts the Jewish holiday of 'Yom Kippur', which means 'Day of Atonement'.

This is a day of soul searching, of trying to better define to ourselves our faults, and try to accept it upon ourselves to become, at least a little, better people. A day of repenting past wrongs we did, looking and finding it in our hearts to forgive wrongs done to us, and trying to remember to learn from this process in the rest of the days of the year. The holiest day of the year for practicing Jews.

On a rough division, there are two kinds of wrongs people can do: against G-d, and hurting their fellow human beings. In Jewish tradition, if the person committing a sin against G-d is truly sorry for what they did, repenting and taking it upon themselves to try and avoid repeating it, G-d forgives those sins.

The deeds which hurt other people, though, are not so 'easily' and personally forgiven. If somebody did anything to harm another person, they would not be able to cleanse themselves from that deed, no matter how much they'd pray and be sorry and repent and try to do good in the future, unless they make amends with the person who was hurt by that deed. As long as peace between people is not achieved, the 'sin', so to speak, is not 'erased from the books'.

Regardless of the date in the year, I'd hate to think I'd offended somebody here (or everywhere else, for that matter). I don't think that the attempts of becoming a better person than one already is, is something that needs a date or a certain holiday for it, of course. It's just that, for me, having a certain day in the year to stop my daily runnings around, and think of nothing else but the really important things, is a good reminder of the order of priorities I'd like to have in my life.

So, since Thursday will be, for me, this day of soul-searching, of trying to create a new start in my on-going effort of 'becoming a good human being, or at least a slightly better one', I would like to ask all of you here, if I offended anybody, or hurt any of you lovely people, to tell me about it, and give me the opportunity to apologize, fix it if possible, and also learn from my mistakes, and try to not repeat them (there are so many new ones to practice, why repeat old ones, you know?).

In case I offended anybody, and can't communicate directly with them about it (for whatever reason), I can already say that I'm truly sorry. I can honestly say that I didn't mean to - you're all so considerate and thoughtful and generally all-around lovely, that there's absolutely no room for such a thing here. However, I might have had a slip of a keyboard, or mistaken somebody's intentions, or many other possible so forths. Y'all are so understanding, you probably didn't take offense anyway, but I want to make sure, all the same.

Please don't get me wrong - I'm definitely not trying to go around in a 'holier-than-thou' show off, or force my personal beliefs on others, or make statements which may be understood as criticizing anybody else's beliefs and way of living. If anything, being around here, among such a rich versatile group of kind and clever people, exposed me to a lot more ways of choosing to lead one's life than I've ever had a chance to see before, and showed me much more of the beauty and richness that is the world we live in.

[Edit: This is especially true for me this year, of all other years - I've been all but absent from the ongoing conversations of b.org for most of it, and then depended so heavily on them, on you, during the crazy months of writing my dissertation and my computer trying to lead me to despair, one error at a time.

I turned to you guys in all those sleepless nights, and I honestly don't know how I could have done this without your presence and your font. During the day I could have my hand held by friends and loved ones (well, mostly virtually held, as I was, like a friend described it, pretty much on house-arrest, which I corrected to computer-arrest, but still). However, the nights would have left me completely lonely and crying-when-nobody-can-hear and needing to grasp at any shred of, well, chocolate, I guess.

And I didn't have to face that (um, not that I gave the chocolate up, of course), because I knew that each time I needed some comfort, or just a reassurance that I'm not the single person who is still awake in the whole wide world, you were there. And it's not just in the technical sense - I'm afraid I'm spoiled enough that just having an ear and a shoulder, no matter whose, may prove insufficient. It was your ear and your shoulder (OK, scary visual place) and your fonts and words of encouragement, which were the only reason those nights were not a wholly horrid experience and I could look to the ones I had in front of me with ability to assume that things wouldn't be that bad.

I don't think I can express how even knowing that, let alone actually enjoying that, was meaningful to me. It's not the topic of my post, but thank you. Thank you guys so very much.]

[Another Edit: each year I hope I'll be able to make it less long and less ramble-y, and each year I realize once again that I completely lack the ability to write anything concise. At least I'm consistent.]

Mwah. We love you, Nilly.