I just shocked myself while removing a plug from a surge protector. My whole hand feels weird, but I am happy to report that my hair is not standing straight up.
Look, Angel, I know you've been out of the loop for a while, but I'm still evil. I don't do errands...unless they're evil errands.
Lilah ,'Just Rewards (2)'
Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
vw bug - Oct 26, 2008 9:20:45 am PDT #9324 of 10001
Mostly lurking...
beth b - Oct 26, 2008 9:21:52 am PDT #9325 of 10001
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
I have a friend that 'found out' she was gay after she was married. Her journey sounds very similar to yours , Steph. No FAC, but she spent her teenage years at school in the Philippines. The interesting thing -- at least 3/4 of the people she knew at that age ( both friends and family ) have come out of the closet.
It kind of reminds me of a few of the new relationships I've seen among some of my older friends. In general, there seems to be a lot less drama and guilt. They seem to be able to say things like - I need alone time or, no I'm not living with you unless we are married or even things like I want you , but I don't need you -- and things work so much better and smoother. Too bad we can do it when we are younger
askye - Oct 26, 2008 11:24:48 am PDT #9326 of 10001
Thrive to spite them
I don't think anyone thought you were decieiving any Steph, just that it was something you couldn't admit to yourself and worked through. And I'm glad you did!
Also thanks everyone for the nice comments about me and SLNRLBF -- we are happy this is the most content i've been with anyone. He's a very ... grounding presence for me I guess is the best way to say it. Plus I slept so well when he was here, I was just so much calmer , my thoughts were calmer, it's hard to describe but it's a great feeling.
I shared all your nice words to him.
In reference to Teppy's comments he said he's Certified Smitten.
Laga - Oct 26, 2008 12:01:56 pm PDT #9327 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
My Mom is drafting a letter that we have all agreed to put our names to expressing our concern for my sister, our need to never see her boyfriend again, and our wish to not see her for the forseeable future.
Shir - Oct 26, 2008 12:06:23 pm PDT #9328 of 10001
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
{{Laga and Laga's family}}
This sounds horrible.
Gadget_Girl - Oct 26, 2008 12:08:14 pm PDT #9329 of 10001
Just call me "Siouxsie Shunshine".
{{{Laga and Laga's family}}}
I'm so sorry you are all having to go through this.
Laga - Oct 26, 2008 12:14:37 pm PDT #9330 of 10001
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.
I think she has a problem as real as drug or alcohol addiction. This is our intervention. Thanks for the hugs.
Barb - Oct 26, 2008 12:16:44 pm PDT #9331 of 10001
“Not dead yet!”
Hang in there, Laga-- sounds nightmarish, but at least you're facing this as a family.
Laura - Oct 26, 2008 12:17:56 pm PDT #9332 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.
I'm so sorry that you and your family are going through this, Laga.
Pix - Oct 26, 2008 12:18:52 pm PDT #9333 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie
Oh honey. I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this.