You're not friends. You'll never be friends. You'll be in love till it kills you both.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 42: Which question do you want me to answer first?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Pix - Oct 26, 2008 12:18:52 pm PDT #9333 of 10001
We're all getting played with, babe. -Weird Barbie

Oh honey. I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this.


askye - Oct 26, 2008 12:29:43 pm PDT #9334 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

(((Laga)) I'm so sorry you and your family are having to deal with this.


Steph L. - Oct 26, 2008 12:32:06 pm PDT #9335 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Ugh, Laga, that's so hard. I hope it helps, even if it takes a while (which I gather can be the case with intervention/addiction-type situations). And I mean "helps" for both your sister and your entire family, because this is hard for all of you.

I just shocked myself while removing a plug from a surge protector.

Ironically, after I posted this morning, we went back for the final classes/presentations of the kink convention, and one of the presentations was on electric play. (It did NOT, however, involve surge protectors.)

Also, vw -- I didn't mean to post melodramatically about wanting to stab my hand with a pen and then leave for hours. But I'm about to check my e-mail, so thank you in advance.

ION, we just bought a KitchenAid mixer. We've had a $100 Best Buy gift card since Xmas 2007, and we also actually had a $100 bill that was also left over from Xmas (I have NO idea how we had the discipline to not spend it), and there was a Best Buy literally 2 minutes from where the kink convention was, so we decided it was time to get a KitchenAid mixer. (We had kept on talking about it, but then never following through, but I've been doing a lot of baking this fall, and I realized how much easier it would be with a mixer. So opportunity presented itself and we jumped on it. Not literally. That would break the mixer.)


askye - Oct 26, 2008 12:33:34 pm PDT #9336 of 10001
Thrive to spite them

Ohh Kitchen Aid mixers are the best.

Steph, where is your brother in Vermont?


sumi - Oct 26, 2008 12:37:12 pm PDT #9337 of 10001
Art Crawl!!!

Laga - I'm glad your family is facing this together.

Teppy - what color did you get?


Laura - Oct 26, 2008 12:39:33 pm PDT #9338 of 10001
Our wings are not tired.

Mmmmm, I got mixer envy.


Steph L. - Oct 26, 2008 12:39:49 pm PDT #9339 of 10001
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Ohh Kitchen Aid mixers are the best.

I want to bake something right now!

Teppy - what color did you get?

White, because the white 275-watt mixer was $199, which is what we had. The colored ones cost more (but they are also higher wattage -- 300 watts -- which I assume is the real reason for the higher price). If the prices were the same, I would have lobbied hard for a red one.

The Boy just yelled from the other room that I should say we bought the VANILLA mixer.

Steph, where is your brother in Vermont?

The restaurant is in Waterbury -- called The Alchemist Pub & Brewery. In case SLNRLBF is anywhere near there, he should definitely go eat there and have their beer. It's very very good (both the food and the beer), as a handful of Buffistas (Nora & Tom, Trudy, megan walker) can attest. He and his wife live in Northfield. Waterbury is maybe 10-15 minutes west of Montpelier, and Northfield is about 10 minutes south of Montpelier.


amych - Oct 26, 2008 12:40:53 pm PDT #9340 of 10001
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

Not literally. That would break the mixer.

Unlikely. The fuckers are cast iron -- they can defend themselves.


SailAweigh - Oct 26, 2008 12:41:08 pm PDT #9341 of 10001
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

{{Laga}} I'm so sorry your family is going through this. I hope your sister pays attention, even if she doesn't act on it now.

I have the serious KitchenAid envy. I've got a FauxAid, which is better than a hand held, but not by much. I want a red one, even if it doesn't match my kitchen.


WindSparrow - Oct 26, 2008 12:45:00 pm PDT #9342 of 10001
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I'm so classically Virgo in that way—the cool exterior that masks a really sensual, earthy inner self, but no one believes me when I say that and I don't let the inner self fully out except with someone very trusted. Or to lesser degrees, in my adult writing, my cooking, or on occasion, my clothes.

Barb, I suppose it must be because of how much time here is spent talking about writing, cooking, and clothing, but I've always assumed passionate and sensual about you. Then again, passionate is a default assumption I make about authors. I figure a writer without passion is like dessert without chocolate: can happen, but not very interesting.

Hugs to all Bitches who want them. Warm fuzzy thoughts to the rest of you, anyway. Also, Harvey-purrs.